LR: SNL in a club

I’m going to write about this same night lay because it was interesting and I want to reproduce the results later.

 

I went to a ball for the 1st year psychology students in a club were some friends had a competition.

The first part of the night was the usual sarging (with a lot of success). I had DHV by knowing some of the guys/girls around and the jealousy plotlines were all around me. A girl I knew went with me to get married by some random girls, then I got divorced from her with the help of another set. I opened like crazy, isolated, etc etc. The night was fun.

I opened a mixed set telling them to vote with a friend of mine, met the guys and their girlfriends and left for other sets. I later met the guy all around the club (he knew some people there) and chit chatted with him. I also found he was a friend of a girl I was sarging. Then I took his girl for a dance (I wasn’t sure if they were together).

She danced with me, lustfully, while her boyfriend watched. While I was bantering with her she tells me about her boyfriend that sits there. I ask how long they’ve been together and she says it doesn’t matter. We continue dancing and then I switch to another girl.

Later that night I take her again to dance with me (I was very confident and I didn’t really care about his boyfriend … he was too passive and I actually talked with him, before stealing her). I stole her in his face, dirty dancing again. I took her and moved in other parts of the club 2 or 3 times while her boyfriend was sitting helplessly. She was moving her butt like crazy.I take her back and continued sarging.

I came back after a while and told her: “I’m stealing you from your boyfriend” and I took her towards the toilet. All the way I’m testing for resistance and she didn’t have any … until I OPENED THE MEN BATHROOM DOOR. Then she tells me she wouldn’t do that as she has a boyfriend. I close the door and say “Ok, I’m a man, I had to try.” She answers with “Yeah, you had to try.”. Then she tells me she doesn’t cheat on her boyfriend. I tell her I understand, and I love to dance with her so we’ll continue dancing. I take her on the dance floor and dance … lasciviously with her (while her boyfriend was looking after her). I took her number then and I leave her with her boyfriend.

She drank all night long and at this point she drinks more. I notice her boyfriend leaves (for the bathroom?) .

I dance with her again half kissing and teasing each other. I tell her that I take numbers and make out with girls in club, it’s normal and not that interesting for me, what’s more interesting is the drama we play and the teasing. She tells me her boyfriend left and she goes back to her couch where she drinks and finishes her smoke (while I dance with a friend). I come to her, she tells me she’s not yet drunk (she wanted to put the blame on me for making her drunk, I don’t buy into it). She asks if I drank tonight, I say I have fun without needing to drink. I tell her to drink as I want her to dance with me, she finishes her drink and then I steal her in the back of the club where we make out heavily. She tried a weak resistance to go to her friends but I stop her and move my knee between her legs. Then I move her hand down my abs to my crouch, she tries to enter my pants so I unbutton 2 buttons. She barely touches my penis while we make out like crazy rabbits (at this point I’m playing a little with her vagina, just to get her started). I took her in my arms (without support from her feet) and kissed her heavily, this made her very horny. We sit on the couch then and she asks me: what did you see in me? I use the newly learned sexual intrigue techniques and tell her: “The second thing I like about you is your eyes, I love the way you look at me. The third thing … is the way you danced. The way we danced and the way you laugh … made me kiss you and the other things that we’ll be doing … are because of you <hinting to what’s next>” (this was exactly what she needed to come with me). There were some waiters that came and went to a door near us so I take her hand and lead her near the bar.

I wanted to enter the bar and fuck her right there but I don’t see the entrance. Instead, I find some stairs that go to a secluded place in the club where there are some couches. On the stairs she stop for a deep kiss while I play with her vagina again. I undress my pants, put a condom on and move her doggy style on the stairs, then I take her shirt of and we fuck like crazy. I put her on the stairs and get into her from the front and she orgasms. She wanted a breath (her back was acking) so I bring her up. She asks: “and you?”. I ask her how do you prefer? <hoping she’ll choose a blowjob or something extravagant>. She doesn’t respond so I put her doggy style and finish myself.

After we came back we couldn’t dance and it was hot for both of us. We joked that at truth or dare we would both respond that the strangest place where we had done it would be in the same club. She tells me not to tell anyone and I respond that I’ll tell people I did it in this club but I won’t tell anyone that it was you. One of my friends took her to dance and I was glad ;-) . Then one of her friends comes to me and tells me her boyfriend put him responsible to take her home. I gladly said “That’s perfect”.

 

KEY POINTS:

  • it’s a number’s game (I get one night stands by going out 3-4 times a week and meeting a lot of girls)
  • her hands on my abs make the girl horny
  • sexual intrigue and tension can easily be created if the girl is interested in you
  • the boyfriend excuse it’s just like rape kino: go until she says no
  • by saying no on the first try, persist and be cool, never apologize, just say it’s natural to you
  • a lot of girls saw me with other girls and they were all cool with it
  • I isolated girls with boyfriends this night, it is possible if you have something to say

 

PS: She’s 18 and it was our first time in a club.

PPS: I used some frames in our discussions that supported the hard to get good to fuck impression she had of me: a good dancer, ex stripper and I’m going to steal her from her boyfriend <it’ll be only the two of us>. I supported my statements by moving her hands on my body (my abs especially). I also created sexual tension (half kisses, touches almost on the breasts) we played … without being vulgar.

PPPS: I recorded an audio after this so I could write about it the next day. I remembered most of the things because through the whole night I was calm and confident.

FR: Sarging works best in clubs where they can hear you

I went to a Halloween party yesterday. It was great, everybody opened due to my costume (and incredible dancing skills of course). I stole 5 girls from the dance floor and the nearby tables and brought them to ours, played games with them and danced a lot. I got numbers and numbers and I gamed like crazy. A girl I brought with me said it was like a brothel at our table (me bringing girl after girl and everything). It was a great night and I got dates for the whole weekend.

FR: Game improving at an enhanced pace

It seems my game has improved a lot lately, I feed that I don’t need to post all my field reports as they follow the same structure. Here are the latest events:

 

Key girls I’ve met:

  • 2 HB9s picked up from the mall, I used props and seeded an event for tomorrow
  • a gorgeous girl I opened after she passwd me with: “STOP”. I took her to a bench nearby where we vibed. She’s into dancing, poetry and deep thoughts.
  • poet girl in the club, she had beautiful eyes

Good things in my game:

  • hugs (I’m hugging people now)
  • props (I’m leaving girls small items that will make them remember me, they also want to return them to me)

Bad things in my game:

  • flakes (I get flaked a lot, I should double date and flake on girls)
  • fast sexual escalation (I’m working on it)

LR: How many hours to lay

I’ve met with a girl I was dating for some time and fucked her the first time. I want to review the process (and maybe I’ll review other interesting lays):

Timeline:

  • - met her a month ago (5 min)
  • - 2 days after we met on our day 2, no kiss (~50 min)
  • - the same night we kissed then I brought her to my apartment, we got naked but LMR won (2 hours)
  • - 3 days after we meet again, same LMR (2 hours)
  • - 1 call during a week of pause (I gamed other girls; 5 min)
  • - 1 week after the last LMR we meet for a drink (~40 min)
  • - 2 days after I go to her apartment where we get naked and LMR again, I pretend I was nervous (even though I didn’t really care as I was fucking other girls) and her roommate came (2 hours)
  • - 1 week of pause
  • - we try to get a movie night friday (I flake), sunday (she flakes) and yesterday we met
  • - SEX!!! we fuck with no LMR whatsoever (I wanted a massage while we were kissing and she’s asking me: “Now?!?” -> sex was clear)

The girl: she is a HB 8, bored with life and without much experience in anything.She has also low, stable self esteem.

Total number of hours spent with her: 7 hours and 40 minutes (aproximately).

Notes:

  • other girls don’t give me this kind of LMR or reactions
  • I think she gave in to sex unconsciously in order to prevent losing me (as I was seeing her once a week)

Things to do differently: more comfort, sharing commonalities, an adventure somewhere in our interaction. I couldn’t really do them as she was pretty boring.

Key points I learned from this interaction:

  • if you don’t call girls for a week, especially girls that don’t go clubbing they’ll think about you
  • 5-10 hours until sex (Mystery’s rule) works
  • keep dating girls you’ve met a while ago, you’ll lay them sooner rather than later

FR: Best club game – stripper style

FR 16.10.2009

Like last year, I opened two girls on the street that I opened before. It’s happening all over again!

I went to a stand-up comedy show and invited a lot of girls from my social circle. I had so much DHV that I was basically in the center of attention. I timebridged a party with a girl that had 2 gorgeous friends. I didn’t game them, just acted cool and uninterested. A girl I gamed a while back came with her friend which I closed easily after that much social proof PU ID 103.

After that I went clubbing with a boy and a girl. We danced a lot, had a lot of fun and basically became the party animals I knew we were. She spanked my ass and I danced in a very dirty way with her. I then met with 3 friends from my social circle and had a lot of fun with them too. I also invited a boy to a party and left him talk to my friend for his number thus connecting two groups with great women in them for tonight.

Good stuff: Great night game: be very loud, shout like no one else shouts and hot dance with everyone!

Bad stuff: I didn’t open in night game. I could have easily opened some girls nearby that had a lot of fun.

Things to do differently: Ask an opener to my group then ask a group nearby.

FR: Bad weather – HBs are hiding

FR 15.10.2009

Bad weather in my town. It seems all the HBs are hiding. This is the perfect time to progress in my current relations.

Set 167 – HB7 + HB6: I bantered with them and had some attraction but I couldn’t close. On my second view of the situation the girl probably had a boyfriend. I should have isolated her but she was at work. I got her signature and a sketch which I then used to enter another set. I also got a lot of DHV from all the people that greeted me.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: Not enough attraction, not 1 commonality and she probably had a boyfriend.

Things to do differently: Get a commonality going.

Set 168 – HB8: Very well dressed, I bantered with her and did everything right. Got a date for tomorrow and she won’t flake … as she has my poem :)

Good stuff: I left a prop (my poem) that she’ll have to bring on the date.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

General notes regarding my sarging skills

It seems I have progressed far more than I realized. While reviewing my old results now I can kiss girls on second dates, get dates easily and once I get the initial approach I can easily number close (and sometimes kiss close).

I’m also active in correcting my current sticking point (flaky girls and tactics to overcome that) by giving girls props (a letter with my poem, a ring or something to feel obliged to meet). I’ll see how it goes :) I’m also not affected by girls rejecting me in clubs (before having a chance to talk to them) and I almost get all the girls in day game.

I tried raising my standards as I can get a lot of numbers in the HB7-8 range but rarely get with girls HB9.5+, the main problem is that I don’t find extremely attractive girl during day game. I’m looking for girls looking gorgeous, wearing high heels, being spontaneous, being deep (writing poems or feeling sensations at another level) and traveling. I’m usually amazed if I get 4 out of 5 and those are the girls that get the 9.5 in my book. Meanwhile, I’m still practicing with HB7-8 girls ;)

In the future I’m going to fix the rest of my game (A3->C) and start a module based only in group theory. I’m going to learn how to socialize with groups, hook up with a girl surrounded by 8 guys, etc. I also started teaching pickup and having results from people finding themselves in different areas of life.

FR: My biggest sticking point: FLAKES

FR 9.10.2009

Set 164 – HB8 + HB8.5 (PU ID 100): I had a very good DHV opening by going to a friend near them and having fun. I opened indirectly, got to know one of the guys and invited them to my table. We had fun, everything was great to a point. I did A1->C1 flawlessly and seeded a date for tomorrow and I started dancing with the girls. After a while they danced together and ignored me and my friend, I ignored them too but once in a while I came and danced with them again. They were dancing with me and having fun but after a while they danced together again, leaving me to dance alone. So I ignored them, which was a good move as before we left the club my target came to me and asked if I’d call her tomorrow. The thing is, … she didn’t answer after I called twice.

Good stuff: Everything: A1->Comfort

Bad stuff: Didn’t know what to do when they started dancing together (it never happened to me before). I played it cool, but not cool enough.

Where I lost the set: I didn’t lose the set, got my number and seeded a date (even though she flaked after).

Things to do differently: Prop after seeding, also, I should have opened a group nearby and created a jealousy plotline.

FR 10.10.2009

I went to a cool club with my friends (and brought 2 girls along. My friends got bored with the club and drained the energy of the set. They wanted to leave so we went to another one in less than an hour. In the new club they were doing the same thing, draining their energy with comments about the music and the atmosphere… so I left to socialize!

Set 165 – HB7 + HB8.5 (PU ID 101): I opened them directly (2 girls dancing) and socialized a bit. After A2 I left the set on a high point in order to return later. I caught them later while relaxing outside and I gamed the HB8.5 (who was into modeling).

Good stuff: Everything.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: A prop or something interesting when setting the date.

Set 166 – HB6.5 + HB9 (PU ID 102): I opened two ladies (~33 and ~29 years old) near the bar. The ~29 one was gorgeous and taller than me. It didn’t matter as I kept it cool and qualified her :) . She told me she’s known in the town, she could sit at any table but she preferred staying with her friend. After a lot of shit tests and open hoops I got her number (business card + beep me) and we talked about sex && co. I tried a SNL by asking her what she had in her fridge and she diverted me in a smart way: she was going to visit her father at an event before going home. I tried again later with the same results. The day after we set a day 2 at 23 and she SMSed me at 22:30 telling me she couldn’t arrive (yet another flake).

Good stuff: Everything. She was taller than me and she was charmed!

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: A prop or something interesting when setting the date.

Conclusions for the night:

  • If my friends drain my energy … open sets! … just don’t stay near them, interact with people!
  • I get a lot of flakes (basically I’m working 15 girls now and I can only get a date per day)
  • I need some props with me (small stones, rings, a poem)
  • I need two more A3 routines (in case we’re not interested in the same things) and 3 comfort techniques


FR: No heels at 14:30

FR 8.10.2009

Set 160 – HB 8.5 dentist: I had a nice walk with her and she told me a lot about herself but I couldn’t close her as she had a boyfriend. The interesting things was that I saw a HB 9.5 in front of me and told HB 8.5 that I was going another way. I waited until she made a few steps, changed my direction again and pursued HB 9.5

Set 161 – HB 9.5 model: A gorgeous girl. She’s into modeling, national Olympics and other stuff and she has a boyfriend. I found out they had 2 years and that was it.

Set 162 – 3 set HB 7.5 (PU ID 98): Opened them because I didn’t see anyone interesting, went indirect … one of the girls asked me if I shouldn’t go to my friends and I body rocked … I also played with my body language and was very indirect. God my targets’ number.

Good stuff: Indirect, body rocks, being interesting, entering comfort with my target, seeding a date.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

NIGHT GAME

Sets which I opened but couldn’t hook. My first reason would be the loud music, everything went well until the music got louder.

Things to do differently: visual stuff, things you can throw from your hand, everything that doesn’t need words, rings with lights, jynx opener, dancing with them.

Set 163 – 3 set HB 7 cute (PU ID 99): Opened indirect, one of the girl recognized me from a party in another town like 2 YEARS AGO!!! I negged her for remembering me (which was kinda’ cool though) and isolated one of her friends that was attracted to me. I did perfect game.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -


FR 9.10.2009

I had a walk at 14:30 to sarge some new HB9s and guess what: no gorgeous HBs today. My condition, heels instead of sneakers, filtered all the girls there. I need to lower my standards in day game.
I had an encounter with PU ID 90 and set a date for tomorrow and talked on the phone with my sarge from yesterday: she’s going home for the weekend.

FR: Picked up HB9.5 with mother convoy :)

FR 7.10.2009

Set 159 – HB 9.5 (PU ID 97): I opened my target directly, talked to the mother that said she didn’t want me to speak to her daughter. I hooked the girl but she was so … lost in the horizons. She looked somewhere else and I negged and negged until she gave some attention back. I number closed her after I bantered a bit but I couldn’t really run game, she was too distracted.

Good stuff: Opened mother-daughter-baby-+1 set. I continued gaming even though she didn’t look interested. Very good body language, I kept her outside MCDonalds even though her relatives were inside.

Bad stuff: Forgot her name and she caught me :)

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: More neggs, laugh at her … Also I told a guy that wanted a signature to marry us and we hold hands … she was susceptive to kino and I didn’t kino her enough.

I also had a lot of flakes due to sickness (real flakes) … 4 girls I’ve met are sick.


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