Living the life

This post includes everything: partying like there’s no tomorrow, kissing each of the 3 girls that lived together while their roommates watched and … fucking in front of the club … FOR THE THIRD TIME!

Let’s start with the beginning:

Earlier this week…

… (Sunday) I went on a date with a girl I sarged, she wasn’t my type so I played social game.

… (Monday) I fucked a girl on our first date (and recorded the interaction from the beginning till her orgasms). Good fuck!

… (Wednesday) I invited some friends for chit chat (including a classmate from college). I only kissed her for 2 seconds while the others kissed, no other move. She stayed over and we fucked. Second good fuck! I also ignored calls from my lay from Monday.

… (Friday / today) …

Today …

… I ignored messages from my Monday lay (because I wanted to go clubbing without the girl I just laid)

… I got a table at a frequented bar in my area, inviting a lot of friends. Two of them already had a table there. The Social Girl from Sunday came with 2 girls and a guy. I befriended them and we chit-chated while my other guests arrived.

SURPRISE!

My lay from Sunday, Horny Girl was invited by Social Girl! She came with 2 girls (both fucking cute). She was very surprised and a bit mad as I didn’t give any sign for 4 days. The girls started dancing and I told Horny Girl I gave her an email about what we talked Monday (a lie that created the idea that I tried contacting her). I dirty danced with everyone and the mood was great. Then I went PUA mood:

I had another table where an ex lay held her birthday; I introduced my wing and other guys in that set and DHVed them. My wing also opened a nearby 3 set where he encountered HB Flexible (his flake from 6 months ago). Another friend of mine told my wing that he laid HB Flexible.

I returned to my table, dirty danced with everyone and number closed HB Cute (HB Horny’s roommate number one). She was good looking and I did a bit of comfort, asked her hard qualifying questions (to which she responded well as I was DHVed by all the people at the table). She number closed me!

I dirty danced with HB Horny again, with other girls, I talked with a dancer (another ex lay) and she DHVed me again. Then I kissed roommate number 2, HB Deep and continued dancing (jealousy plotline in action).

Returning to my other table I number closed HB Flexible after I danced with her (and man she was horny). I held a strong frame and told her we won’t meet Saturday, we’ll meet Sunday, before dark . She number closed me.

While dancing with another girl I noticed HB Horny’s buying temperature rising and I told one of the guys that I’ll lay HB Horny in front of the club. I went to her, took her from the guy, danced a bit and asked if she’s spontaneous and once she qualified I took her hand and took her outside. In 20 seconds we were in a relatively isolated place (one guy asked what were we doing but he left). We had a quick fuck there and we returned to the club, directly to the bathroom … couldn’t help but brag to my wing, showing him her mudded blouse.

Then, I went into deep comfort with HB Deep: she told me I knew things about people and I told her I could tell a lot about her. I tried a kiss close but she didn’t comply (even though I could touch her … so I understood I needed to build rapport). I cold read every inch of her body (we shared a commonality: one of my exes (which one?) was born in a town near her). I told her about the year she lost her virginity, about how she feels when she goes to clubs, how many guys she had, why she dresses as she dresses and how she suppresses many needs in her life due to the image she has in her friends’ eyes. We talked about Jung’s shadow and how she can have fun … not now … but when she feels that need … that strong need inside her like when NOW, she feels that … NEEDs when she knows she met someone (insert strong NLP self-invented pattern here). We built a strong connection and she number closed me. While we talked HB Cute interrupted us trying to steal her friend but she wouldn’t go; she was deep in the interaction. Meanwhile, I played with HB Horny’s hand trying to play for a 3 way kiss close but HB Horny left while we were talking so I kiss closed HB Deep. I also pre-framed HB Cute as being jealous in case of more interruptions.

After I number closed the roommates HB Cute sit down and talked for 30 minutes with HB Deep (about me of corse). I ignored them and number closed a girl from college that was the party type (and at our nearby table, seeing me flirting with all those girls). My fuckbuddy from my Virgin Mary LR came and we danced together and my wing told me to create comfort with another HB he brought there. I danced with her, she danced well so I cold read she did dances (she was a hip hop dancer). I tried some commonalities but couldn’t hit the spot … so I hard qualified her. She didn’t know how to qualify so I used my she-number-closes-me routine on her and she took my number. I didn’t DHV as I didn’t know her status with my wing (who was sarging other girls at that moment).

Total: 5 number closes, 3 kiss closes and 1 lay. I didn’t open ONE SET!

Key points:

• my abs: putting girls’ hands on my abs make them extremely horny
• ask girls if they are spontaneous and if they qualify, isolate them
• make them number close you: hard qualification (what makes you special with all the beautiful girls here) + be impressed (if you are) + SOI and number close her: “ok, I like the way you think, write my number!”. Ff she doesn’t qualify well: “I see … ok, then I don’t promise anything but conversation” or “you’re not my type, I really prefer X girls” (check if she qualifies for X)
• having a table and inviting a lot of people (we were over 20 people at the table or near) works in your favor
• you can kiss close girls in front of other girls you kiss closed the same night, also you can number close and let them figure out what you want from them
• deep interactions can go over club superficiality (I framed myself in the girl’s eyes that we all party here and who we truly are we’ll find in person) => I could kiss close girls without her feeling bad or betrayed
• knowing one of the dancers, the waitress and the owner worked great
• club energy matters: it was high but you could speak well

A new Roadmap Model

Progress versus Correction

When I started out, the Roadmap + Sticking Points System was the best idea I ever had. I went in field with 1 new thing to practice and 3 things to correct. In two months I reached the next level, my main game was solid and I could number close at a good rate.

On Roadmap 2.0 however, I find myself continuously missing occasions to practice the advanced tactics I want to learn and I’m asking myself, shouldn’t I take it another way?

I’ve read The Game Acceleration Doctrine by Sinn and he recommends working on Sticking Points and fixing what doesn’t work instead of learning new things (and still getting stuck at what you haven’t corrected). It seems to be a good idea even though you don’t quite progress that way, mostly you correct yourself (which could give results).

After I finish my Roadmap 2.0 I’m going to develop a new Roadmap technique.

Roadmap 3.0

My ideas so far:

• sticking points don’t have a separate page, they go on next week’s roadmap module (a technique I’ve read in DWM – time management)
• roadmap isn’t built from the start (I don’t need comfort routines, I’m a natural comfort chatter, that’s the reason I’ve got so many LJBFs a year ago), I just add the next module when the week is over (weekly modules)
• I’m going to concentrate on small routines and frames instead of generic techniques (e.g. use one C&F reply 3 times) -> once I have default answers I can improvise
• I’m going to count my rate of success (monthly number close rate, flake rate and f-rate) so I can have a progress bar
• I’m going in 3 steps: 1 module learning + 1 module perfecting + 1 module correction (e.g. learn sexual tension, get advanced sexual tension techniques, calibrate correctly)
• I’m going to use an INBOX where I’ll put all the things I want to learn and I’m going to select only the most important ones for the following week (Scrum development)

TIP: PU enhances inner game

I never had a problem with my inner game. I know myself and I know what I want, I don’t have mood problems and I don’t lack motivation in what I’m doing. But something strange happened as a secondary effect of learning game.

This weekend one of my LJBFs (that I’m best friends with) had a sleepover at my home. I number closed a girl at the tan salon while she was tanning and she was very open about me fucking girls while she was there. When we arrived home after a night of clubbing we knew what we wanted

She left for another country and forgot something at my home. I texted her about that and her answer: “keep it until we’ll make another sleepover”.

Today, I had a movie party with 2 couples and a colleague from the university (a girl I liked but wasn’t the party type). Instant attraction: she wanted me, I felt the hormones in the air, I knew what was happening and I could basically feel her needing me (this was happening while I was flirting with the other girls – our usual verbal convo).

I never gamed them but my LJBF and my colleague seemed to have sudden interest in me. It seems I’m more fun now and more mature. Also the gym shows results as the (ex) LJBF was surprised at the size of my muscles (yeah right!).

Key points:

• you can get girls you already know by getting better at PU
• LJBFs don’t stay LJBFs if you spike the attraction
• muscles do create attraction and sexuality