Understanding my sticking point from the meta-game perspective

I applied the solutions I proposed to myself for my sticking point from last month (getting LMR on Day 2s and SNLs) and while discussing this with an online buddy I had an instant revelation: what’s the meta game reason for getting the LMR?

The SEASON!!!

What happens:

  • it’s summer, girls are appreciated for their looks more
  • I changed my looks to a “bad boy” style
  • I was playing with my sexual presence

The result? The girls didn’t trust me!!!

While in the winter I had a nice boy look and created comfort and attraction in a “safe way” now I’m into tight fitting clothes that show my muscles and all. The girls are looking at me as having lots’ of options which in turn gives me more LMR.

The solution? Work into a deep connection with the girl, play on the vulnerability sharing and enhance that comfort talk. I can skip attraction now as I already have it by going direct, having the looks and the correct frame.

2 Responses to “Understanding my sticking point from the meta-game perspective”


  1. 1 Phronesis (Singapore) July 2, 2010 at 10:36 am

    Hi fellow PUA,

    Stumbled upon your site, and its great to see a fellow PUA with a great blog. Hopefully u get past ur good number of LMR’s soon. haha

    I hope you don’t mind that i’ll be adding your blog to my blogroll?
    I write about specifically about DayGame and i think its cool that my readers who’re interested in game and self-improvement get to read about their favourite topic just by jumping from blog to blog ;)

    If its not too much trouble, do u think u could add me to your blogroll as well? — http://www.mydaygamejourney.wordpress.com

    Thanks! and i hope to hear from you!

    Sincerely,
    Phronesis (Singapore)

    twitter ID: daygamejourney
    email: phronesis.singapore@gmail.com

  2. 2 angelsin July 15, 2010 at 12:47 pm

    Hi Phronesis, I saw your blog but it’s still in its incipient stage. Most people don’t bother posting after a few months and it all goes to waste. So I’ll keep an eye on it and if you’re still around in a few months I’ll add you.


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