LR: Virgin Mary

I’m writing this as it’s an interesting lay report and things can be learned from it. I’ll censure most parts of the story as somebody reading this could know her.

Number close:

I got her number in a club at Halloween because I liked the way she was dressed (sexy geisha).

First date + kiss close:

At our first date we kiss closed and we had a lot of things to talk about (she’s in the top 30 smartest Romanian achievers list). I also learned she was a virgin so she was a no-no in my mind (oh, almost forgot: a bisexual virgin). She wasn’t exclusive (g’yeah!).

Second date:

We went clubbing and she was a good (aka sexy) dancer with a high desire to have fun in every way possible (we dared each other to do adventurous things in the club).

Third date:

I arrived home from a trip on Sunday and I was exhausted. Before I went to bed I called some girls so I can set a date after I wake up, in the night. We’ve met for a drink in the park, ran from dogs, spilled drinks while running, et cetera et cetera. We also talked about seduction, getting girls in bed and life theories (I was preparing her as a pivot). We arrived at my home to play a table game (yeah right). After a lot of talking (and telling secrets) we massaged each other and then started making out.

F-Close:

She told me she was sexually assaulted when she was little and was now traumatized about sexual intercourse. I continued making out with her using common LMR techniques and calming her and got LMR due to trauma flashbacks. Here’s the technique I developed to pass this: I told her to hug me and kiss me as nothing exists each time it hurt or she had a flashback. She did so and we fucked. After she felt very good about the experience, she passed one of her greatest fear (that kept her from sex for a long time).

The questions:

Q: “When did you realize you wanted to have sex with me?”

R: “When we went at your place … but I was very scared. Talking about my problems helped a lot.”

Q: “When were you first attracted to me?”

R: “A little in the club due to the way I behaved and the games I knew and a lot at our second date when we discussed high level subjects.”

Final thoughts:

I don’t want to have sex with virgins. There’s too much involvement. Why I had this exception, you may wonder. Well, it’s because she’s a very kind and smart person and I perceive her as a very good friend (with benefits). I wouldn’t like anyone else to do it for her. If the boy would’ve been less experienced she would have been traumatized the second time.

Key points:

• having vast experience with women, a pickup artist should know how to help them in case of need (but he shouldn’t be responsible for them), note the technique in the F-Close section
• talking about traumas helps a lot, it makes the woman feel safe around you (you understand her)
• she didn’t want to come to me when we talked at the phone, but she did in the middle of the date; create adventure then lead to the desired destination
• when you bring a woman over, she knows you two might have sex

LR: SNL in a club

I’m going to write about this same night lay because it was interesting and I want to reproduce the results later.

 

I went to a ball for the 1st year psychology students in a club were some friends had a competition.

The first part of the night was the usual sarging (with a lot of success). I had DHV by knowing some of the guys/girls around and the jealousy plotlines were all around me. A girl I knew went with me to get married by some random girls, then I got divorced from her with the help of another set. I opened like crazy, isolated, etc etc. The night was fun.

I opened a mixed set telling them to vote with a friend of mine, met the guys and their girlfriends and left for other sets. I later met the guy all around the club (he knew some people there) and chit chatted with him. I also found he was a friend of a girl I was sarging. Then I took his girl for a dance (I wasn’t sure if they were together).

She danced with me, lustfully, while her boyfriend watched. While I was bantering with her she tells me about her boyfriend that sits there. I ask how long they’ve been together and she says it doesn’t matter. We continue dancing and then I switch to another girl.

Later that night I take her again to dance with me (I was very confident and I didn’t really care about his boyfriend … he was too passive and I actually talked with him, before stealing her). I stole her in his face, dirty dancing again. I took her and moved in other parts of the club 2 or 3 times while her boyfriend was sitting helplessly. She was moving her butt like crazy.I take her back and continued sarging.

I came back after a while and told her: “I’m stealing you from your boyfriend” and I took her towards the toilet. All the way I’m testing for resistance and she didn’t have any … until I OPENED THE MEN BATHROOM DOOR. Then she tells me she wouldn’t do that as she has a boyfriend. I close the door and say “Ok, I’m a man, I had to try.” She answers with “Yeah, you had to try.”. Then she tells me she doesn’t cheat on her boyfriend. I tell her I understand, and I love to dance with her so we’ll continue dancing. I take her on the dance floor and dance … lasciviously with her (while her boyfriend was looking after her). I took her number then and I leave her with her boyfriend.

She drank all night long and at this point she drinks more. I notice her boyfriend leaves (for the bathroom?) .

I dance with her again half kissing and teasing each other. I tell her that I take numbers and make out with girls in club, it’s normal and not that interesting for me, what’s more interesting is the drama we play and the teasing. She tells me her boyfriend left and she goes back to her couch where she drinks and finishes her smoke (while I dance with a friend). I come to her, she tells me she’s not yet drunk (she wanted to put the blame on me for making her drunk, I don’t buy into it). She asks if I drank tonight, I say I have fun without needing to drink. I tell her to drink as I want her to dance with me, she finishes her drink and then I steal her in the back of the club where we make out heavily. She tried a weak resistance to go to her friends but I stop her and move my knee between her legs. Then I move her hand down my abs to my crouch, she tries to enter my pants so I unbutton 2 buttons. She barely touches my penis while we make out like crazy rabbits (at this point I’m playing a little with her vagina, just to get her started). I took her in my arms (without support from her feet) and kissed her heavily, this made her very horny. We sit on the couch then and she asks me: what did you see in me? I use the newly learned sexual intrigue techniques and tell her: “The second thing I like about you is your eyes, I love the way you look at me. The third thing … is the way you danced. The way we danced and the way you laugh … made me kiss you and the other things that we’ll be doing … are because of you <hinting to what’s next>” (this was exactly what she needed to come with me). There were some waiters that came and went to a door near us so I take her hand and lead her near the bar.

I wanted to enter the bar and fuck her right there but I don’t see the entrance. Instead, I find some stairs that go to a secluded place in the club where there are some couches. On the stairs she stop for a deep kiss while I play with her vagina again. I undress my pants, put a condom on and move her doggy style on the stairs, then I take her shirt of and we fuck like crazy. I put her on the stairs and get into her from the front and she orgasms. She wanted a breath (her back was acking) so I bring her up. She asks: “and you?”. I ask her how do you prefer? <hoping she’ll choose a blowjob or something extravagant>. She doesn’t respond so I put her doggy style and finish myself.

After we came back we couldn’t dance and it was hot for both of us. We joked that at truth or dare we would both respond that the strangest place where we had done it would be in the same club. She tells me not to tell anyone and I respond that I’ll tell people I did it in this club but I won’t tell anyone that it was you. One of my friends took her to dance and I was glad . Then one of her friends comes to me and tells me her boyfriend put him responsible to take her home. I gladly said “That’s perfect”.

 

KEY POINTS:

• it’s a number’s game (I get one night stands by going out 3-4 times a week and meeting a lot of girls)
• her hands on my abs make the girl horny
• sexual intrigue and tension can easily be created if the girl is interested in you
• the boyfriend excuse it’s just like rape kino: go until she says no
• by saying no on the first try, persist and be cool, never apologize, just say it’s natural to you
• a lot of girls saw me with other girls and they were all cool with it
• I isolated girls with boyfriends this night, it is possible if you have something to say

 

PS: She’s 18 and it was our first time in a club.

PPS: I used some frames in our discussions that supported the hard to get good to fuck impression she had of me: a good dancer, ex stripper and I’m going to steal her from her boyfriend <it’ll be only the two of us>. I supported my statements by moving her hands on my body (my abs especially). I also created sexual tension (half kisses, touches almost on the breasts) we played … without being vulgar.

PPPS: I recorded an audio after this so I could write about it the next day. I remembered most of the things because through the whole night I was calm and confident.

LR: How many hours to lay

I’ve met with a girl I was dating for some time and fucked her the first time. I want to review the process (and maybe I’ll review other interesting lays):

Timeline:

• - met her a month ago (5 min)
• - 2 days after we met on our day 2, no kiss (~50 min)
• - the same night we kissed then I brought her to my apartment, we got naked but LMR won (2 hours)
• - 3 days after we meet again, same LMR (2 hours)
• - 1 call during a week of pause (I gamed other girls; 5 min)
• - 1 week after the last LMR we meet for a drink (~40 min)
• - 2 days after I go to her apartment where we get naked and LMR again, I pretend I was nervous (even though I didn’t really care as I was fucking other girls) and her roommate came (2 hours)
• - 1 week of pause
• - we try to get a movie night friday (I flake), sunday (she flakes) and yesterday we met
• - SEX!!! we fuck with no LMR whatsoever (I wanted a massage while we were kissing and she’s asking me: “Now?!?” -> sex was clear)

The girl: she is a HB 8, bored with life and without much experience in anything.She has also low, stable self esteem.

Total number of hours spent with her: 7 hours and 40 minutes (aproximately).

Notes:

• other girls don’t give me this kind of LMR or reactions
• I think she gave in to sex unconsciously in order to prevent losing me (as I was seeing her once a week)

Things to do differently: more comfort, sharing commonalities, an adventure somewhere in our interaction. I couldn’t really do them as she was pretty boring.

Key points I learned from this interaction:

• if you don’t call girls for a week, especially girls that don’t go clubbing they’ll think about you
• 5-10 hours until sex (Mystery’s rule) works
• keep dating girls you’ve met a while ago, you’ll lay them sooner rather than later

FR: First lay using the game

FR 17.10.2008

I had a lot of FBs before but this is my first LR using game techniques (anti LMR, hot/cold, reframing – she’s hitting on you, confidence: we’ll have sex tonight).

Set 74 – HB7: Lost her on the street. I entered A2 with a story but I couldn’t go in A3 as she arrived at the university (7 min). I asked for her number, didn’t work the first time, another story and 3 minutes after she still didn’t give it. She was in a hurry and left. If I had more time I’m pretty sure I could’ve taken her number (or at least find out she had a BF).

LR – PU ID 44: First lay report due to the game. I had my Day 2 with the girl from the club. We started in a park (2 glasses, champagne, hugs and kisses) and then we went to my room. We watched one of the movies I mixed and I couldn’t escalate. She wanted to talk and she kept insisting we won’t make sex. I played hot/cold, give/take, a lot of other techniques and I found out more about her (she’s into BL, personality, she reads a lot and she’s pretty quiet). I didn’t play games and we mostly talked about personalities. Since I thought we wouldn’t make sex I talked about approaching girls, telling stories and things like that. She told me she was ok with me being with other women and wanted a drink. I knew it was on: I put Barry White, we kissed and we made out. She loved it . After happy hour she told me she loved the way I was looking at her and my confidence. I got after lay feedback: she wanted sex after I played with her breasts and she was attracted when I hugged her in the club. I MUST HUG MORE!!!

 

Set 75 – HB7: I took her id (PU ID 45) at 7 AM in the morning, after I walked PU ID 44 out of my dorm. It was a quick take … I was feeling … satisfied. I told her about palm reading so she’ll remember me by something unique.

 

Good points:

• the anti LMR techniques ROCKED
• I needed to be direct in set 74 (and should’ve realized that)
• HUGGING rocks in any environment, I should hug on departure
• preselection (telling PU ID 44 about some girls) did the job

 

Bad points:

• lack of ALWAYS ON mentality

 

Sticking points: NONE