LR: How many hours to lay

I’ve met with a girl I was dating for some time and fucked her the first time. I want to review the process (and maybe I’ll review other interesting lays):

Timeline:

• - met her a month ago (5 min)
• - 2 days after we met on our day 2, no kiss (~50 min)
• - the same night we kissed then I brought her to my apartment, we got naked but LMR won (2 hours)
• - 3 days after we meet again, same LMR (2 hours)
• - 1 call during a week of pause (I gamed other girls; 5 min)
• - 1 week after the last LMR we meet for a drink (~40 min)
• - 2 days after I go to her apartment where we get naked and LMR again, I pretend I was nervous (even though I didn’t really care as I was fucking other girls) and her roommate came (2 hours)
• - 1 week of pause
• - we try to get a movie night friday (I flake), sunday (she flakes) and yesterday we met
• - SEX!!! we fuck with no LMR whatsoever (I wanted a massage while we were kissing and she’s asking me: “Now?!?” -> sex was clear)

The girl: she is a HB 8, bored with life and without much experience in anything.She has also low, stable self esteem.

Total number of hours spent with her: 7 hours and 40 minutes (aproximately).

Notes:

• other girls don’t give me this kind of LMR or reactions
• I think she gave in to sex unconsciously in order to prevent losing me (as I was seeing her once a week)

Things to do differently: more comfort, sharing commonalities, an adventure somewhere in our interaction. I couldn’t really do them as she was pretty boring.

Key points I learned from this interaction:

• if you don’t call girls for a week, especially girls that don’t go clubbing they’ll think about you
• 5-10 hours until sex (Mystery’s rule) works
• keep dating girls you’ve met a while ago, you’ll lay them sooner rather than later

FR: First lay using the game

FR 17.10.2008

I had a lot of FBs before but this is my first LR using game techniques (anti LMR, hot/cold, reframing – she’s hitting on you, confidence: we’ll have sex tonight).

Set 74 – HB7: Lost her on the street. I entered A2 with a story but I couldn’t go in A3 as she arrived at the university (7 min). I asked for her number, didn’t work the first time, another story and 3 minutes after she still didn’t give it. She was in a hurry and left. If I had more time I’m pretty sure I could’ve taken her number (or at least find out she had a BF).

LR – PU ID 44: First lay report due to the game. I had my Day 2 with the girl from the club. We started in a park (2 glasses, champagne, hugs and kisses) and then we went to my room. We watched one of the movies I mixed and I couldn’t escalate. She wanted to talk and she kept insisting we won’t make sex. I played hot/cold, give/take, a lot of other techniques and I found out more about her (she’s into BL, personality, she reads a lot and she’s pretty quiet). I didn’t play games and we mostly talked about personalities. Since I thought we wouldn’t make sex I talked about approaching girls, telling stories and things like that. She told me she was ok with me being with other women and wanted a drink. I knew it was on: I put Barry White, we kissed and we made out. She loved it . After happy hour she told me she loved the way I was looking at her and my confidence. I got after lay feedback: she wanted sex after I played with her breasts and she was attracted when I hugged her in the club. I MUST HUG MORE!!!

 

Set 75 – HB7: I took her id (PU ID 45) at 7 AM in the morning, after I walked PU ID 44 out of my dorm. It was a quick take … I was feeling … satisfied. I told her about palm reading so she’ll remember me by something unique.

 

Good points:

• the anti LMR techniques ROCKED
• I needed to be direct in set 74 (and should’ve realized that)
• HUGGING rocks in any environment, I should hug on departure
• preselection (telling PU ID 44 about some girls) did the job

 

Bad points:

• lack of ALWAYS ON mentality

 

Sticking points: NONE