Archive for the 'roadmap' Category

REVIEW: 29.09.2009

R: 29.09.2009

Good points:

  • (+++) Day game

Bad points:

  • (-9) Pebbles, bantering, cocky funny
  • (-4) Mysterious, silence game
  • (-2) Deep club voice
  • (-2) Seeding
  • (-2) Open threads
  • (-2) seeding

What I corrected since my last review:

  • good day game
  • kiss close on day 2
  • bantering / vibing
  • international game (foreign pickup)

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • pebbles, bantering, cocky funny

A break from the game

I’m into a relationship now. I won’t quit meeting new people in bars and on the street but I won’t cheat and I’ll concentrate on the S* part of my roadmap.

Note: this blog will not be closed, I’ll still post field reports and experiences in socializing using sarging techniques.

REVIEW: 10.11.2008

R: 8.10.2008

Good points:

  • (+++) Day game mostly OK
  • (+2) BL
  • (+2) EC
  • (+1) Reframing
  • (+1) Opening mixed sets
  • (+1) Day sarges
  • (+1) Direct
  • (+1) Kino

 

Bad points:

  • (-10) A3
  • (-8) Club Game
  • (-8) Comfort
  • (-6) C&F
  • (-3) playful
  • (-3) flaking
  • (-2) seeding

 

What I corrected since my last review:

  • added more material
  • improved general game
  • good day game
  • boldness
  • sexual escalation

 

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • A3
  • club game
  • comfort
  • cocky and funny
  • seeding

New way to post field reports

This was taken from whim’s blog. Instead of posting my good points, bad points and sticking points I will concentrate on the following:

  • good points
  • bad points (that added up will make my sticking points)
  • where I lost the set
  • things to do differently
I think this is an efficient way of viewing FRs.

Statistics!

I have 22 phone numbers (after I deleted some girls that suddenly realized they have a boyfriend, weren’t interesting or didn’t want to meet me). I wanted to call them for tonight (house club) and here are the results:

  • 22 phone numbers I didn’t fuck
  • 5 are backups (not interesting)
  • 6 didn’t answer after I called them twice
  • 8 are occupied or are in another town
  • from the 3 left: one is not cute (but she’s into threesomes) and 2 like retro music

Even with 22 phone numbers I could convince only one girl to come, the retro one, (and some girls I knew from before).

REVIEW: 8.10.2008

R: 8.10.2008

Good points:

  • (+6) calibration
  • (+2) A1, A2
  • (+2) Friendly Kino
  • (+2) Eye contact
  • (+2) Socializing

 

Bad points:

  • (-7) sexual (Kino Escalation)
  • (-3) day 2 escalation
  • (-2) not going direct before losing set
  • (-2) no NLP to improve state in clubs
  • (-2) not gaming the obstacle
  • (-2) comfort/rapport
  • (-2) short funny stories

 

What I corrected since my last review:

  • slow talk
  • calibration
  • entering a set and not running game

 

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • I added some material (short funny stories)
  • comfort/rapport tactics

Rating system for girls

I have a subjective idea of what a HB is so from now on I’ll use this rating system. This is not meant to objectify a woman, it is primarily used to rate a girl based on her looks. Ratings may vary up to 2 points (HB8 in club -> HB7 in the morning). I will use a personality scale if I find it useful (I sometimes find a HB7 with a personality of 9) but I’ll concentrate on looks.

 

HB10: Has both an incredibly-hot face and an incredibly-hot body. HB10s are very rare. They have the combination of looks and body found in actresses and models.

HB9: Possesses one aspect from an HB10 (face or body) and one from an HB8. Will have an incredibly-hot face and very attractive body, or vice-versa.

HB8: Has both a very attractive face and a very attractive body. GF material.

HB7: Possesses one aspect from an HB8 (face or body) and one from an HB6. Will have a very attractive face and a body of average attractiveness, or vice-versa.

HB6: Has both a face and a body of average attractiveness. HB6s are the type of girl that no guy would be ashamed to have sex with and some are good GF material, but their level of attractiveness is fairly common.

HB5: Possesses one aspect from an HB6 (face or body) and one from an HB4. Will have a face of average attractiveness and a below-average body, or vice-versa. HB5s are layable, but they are not attractive enough to justify putting in any effort. They should only be laid during drunken hook-ups or to break a dry-spell.

UG4: Has a face and body of below-average attractiveness.

UG3: The definition of “ugly”.

UG2: Morbidly obese. Possible hygiene issues.

UG1: Physical deformities or very elderly.

REVIEW: 25.09.2008

R: 25.09.2008

After I collected all the good/bad and sticking points of my game here’s the summary:

 

Good points:

  • (+6)  I’m good at mantaining dominance, resisting shit tests and making fun of girls (lil’ negs)
  • (+2) relaxed BL
  • (+2) opening
  • (+2) social proof / social circle game
  • (+2) timebridging

 

Bad points:

  • (-10) material (short funny stories)
  • (-6) be more bold/alpha
  • (-6) slow talk
  • (-6) ljbf / bf destroyer routines / alpha dominance
  • (-4) bad memory
  • (-4) calibrate
  • (-2) fastgame during day
  • (-2) failure recovery
  • (-2) entering a set and not running game
  • (-2) needy
  • (-2) be direct if you risk loosing her
  • (-1) kino

 

So these are my new STICKING POINTS:

  • more material (concentrate on A2 – funny stories, C1 elicit rapport)
  • boldness (state intentions before loosing the set)
  • slow talk
  • anti LJBF techniques (boldness helps, also BF destroyer phone routines)

History so far: what I did, where I am and where I’m going

Here’s some info on my progress before I started this blog.

PAST:

During high school I had moderate success with women … had a gf in 9th grade, in 11th and I wasn’t a virgin during high school. During my university years I partied a lot, took girls’ phone numbers on the street (in 3 minutes ore less, without game) and I was somewhat successful: I had girl friends constantly and I cheated on the boring ones with 2 or more girls. I always seek diversity and interesting social interactions. My roommates were taking me to clubs so that I could go and talk to girls in order to introduce them (which I did, successfully). I’m cute and I had some weight (which I took off). I had sex and threesomes were a high school experience for me.

As a person I enjoy traveling and improving myself. I’ve been in a Scout organization, I traveled in a lot of countries and I partied everywhere I went. Also I’m constantly learning ways to become more productive and be better at things I enjoy doing.

One day I took a girl’s phone number in a new way. I turned to leave and I asked for the number with my body language telling her I’m leaving / not that interested. She gave it fast. I searched this tactic on the internet (I figured that if I can find another guy that uses the same tactic he could have other ones that may work). I arrived at the VH1 episodes and after watching them I decided I wanted to game.

With all the VH1 material noted I started going out, playing games with girls and I knew that it helped a lot. (Before, I had experiences like holding the hand on the back of the girl and not telling her anything as I didn’t know what to say). I also learned a new way to tell stories (and I had so many to tell … I just didn’t know how not to brag). After VH1 I read The Game and took a bit more info from the internet.

NOW:

Three months later I created a Roadmap to Success. I made modules with all this info so that I can learn it in order and I started this blog so I can review my history and improve myself quicker. Gaming girls is helping me become more social and always having things to say, do, act… it teaches me to become a man.

FUTURE:

I started playing the game using the Pareto Principle but now I’m thinking this will help me in more ways that I can imagine. So here are my milestones:

  • open mixed sets (once I can do this successfully it will greatly help in other areas)
  • NLP practitioner (this has a wide variety of applications and the best thing is that I can practice it while gaming)
  • SNL
  • MLTR
After these are reached I’ll probably choose another direction for my free time.