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Today’s post: drugged girls, taking dares and prince charming gone bad!

A lot of things happened since my last post. Let the story start:

Friday I went at a karaoke bar with some girls I knew. I didn’t want to pick them up as they were friends … just to chill and socialize. I had a lot of fun singing with the girls and everybody applauded after I improvised a dance with HBcute. We danced so hot, body movement and all that everybody had their eyes on us (flash game yet again).

I had a lot of comfort with the girls and had a lot of fun and then it happened:

  1. my best (girl) friend left (leaving me with 7 girls)
  2. most of the girls left
  3. I remained with HBerotic_masseuze

She was taller than me, she fucked playboy photographers and she was on coke. Never had one of those ;-) . I didn’t want anything with her but after she bought us drinks (and got me drunk) she asked what do I have to drink (at home). I told her french wine and we got to my place. She was unfuckable as she was on the verge of vomiting on my place (why the fuck did I get her here! <– because I was drunk too!!!). We slept naked and I woke up the next morning doing my usual exercise, eating and working. She didn’t wake up …

until 16 p.m. when I finally got rid of her.

Saturday I got together with some friends and played poker while drinking good wine. 3 girls called me at 01 asking me at what club I was (this same day I noticed 3 OTHER girls having pictures with me on their profile … wtf?). My HBerotic_masseuze SMSed me at 2 o’clock telling me she was watching porn and wanted to go clubbing ;-) omigod! omigod! I hope she’s not a stoker!

Sunday I went lasertag with some friends and bit little kids to death! (at points) After that I receive 2 other texts from HBerotic_masseuze asking where I was and what I was doing (she’s a stoker => don’t respond).

What else happened in my life? Here’s the rundown:

I got a dare to fuck a girl on these songs (a song about kids and the national hymn):

Mission completed 2 nights after! I got audio and I dared the guy back to fuck on looney tunes. I guess I can wait a lifetime for that to happen. Now we’re thinking of having a club mix with my audio ;-)

I arrived at a stage where I now realize I don’t need any more materials. I need to get my sticking points done and read specifics. I need to develop that part of me that’s not quite natural (C&F mainly + inuendos). My new roadmap version will help with that.

Flake recovery technique with short day game: I understand that the reason girls don’t meet with me is that after 3 days they forget those 3-5 minutes in which I number closed them. I should get their chat id on the phone and in case they don’t meet (or flake) to send them a (DHV) movie I made asking for their opinion about it. That way they’ll remember me, they’ll know something about myself and I can recover easily from that.

Another good flake recovery technique: after 5 days you sms her by mistake (my previously posted DHV sms in which you invite another girl at a party to meet a nigga’ from another country). You wait 2 hours in case she answers and then you call her, tell her it’s by mistake, “by the way” + comfort story + SOI “I like that we can talk about so many intimate things at the phone.” + get chat id (in case you don’t have it) or set a date (social date).

Here’s a 3rd successful flake recovery technique (this recovered an HB9 I’ve met a year ago). I delete numbers after 3rd try but I dare myself to get some HB9+ back after a while. It also recovered a girl with which I talked for 5 minutes and then flaked (she had a bf at that time). So here goes: after 2 tries to get a date you SMS her “I’m glad I’ve met you but I’m not the insistent type. I loved your feminine presence for those full … 5 … minutes ;-) . Au’revoir cheri!“. Basically you SOI her and then you renounce her. This demonstrates non-needyness. Then you use my other 2 techniques to get her again (When I phone her, I usually say that I don’t like girls that flaked and she should’ve apologized. She usually excuses herself so I SOI her for having the guts to do that and I get the convo going).

A good sms I texted to girls I didn’t call for some time (got good response rate): “Right now I’m dancin’ in the rain and I thought to share my joy ;-) (big fkin’ smile).” It contains emotions and an edge element.

And here’s another FR: Prince Charming gone bad:

Last Friday I fucked in front of the club … and I k-closed 2 of the girl’s roommates. Now I’ve met one of them and here’s the exclusive story:

We planned for hot chocolate but before we met I phoned her that I was at the marked and was buying wine. She asked me if we were going for the chocolate but I rushed her and closed the phone. I meet her in the front of the marked and she asks me where are we going. I tell her it’s at chez’Angelsin. She asks why the wine. I tell her that we’re celebrating: Angelsin beat all of his friends at lasertag! I also frame this as my usual date: never the hot chocolate at a bar, always fun and interesting.

She tries to enter comfort with me (because I had too much A2 and probably because I fucked one of her roommates). I entered the prince charming frame: the prince, the princess, deep questions, leave the moment (nlp). She wants even more comfort! She also told me she’s on her period (hehe, good one girls!). I qualified her in the perfect moments, made her massage me … licked her breasts etc etc.

I was told 5 times that she wanted to be just friends (while I kissed her) ;-) I love the “yes we should” strategy ;-) . Because of too much A2 she didn’t want to be swept of her feet so I hugged her deeply. GOT IT! MAXIMUM IMPACT! The only problem: she was falling in love! I didn’t want to pursue this so I wanted to experiment something new. So when we left I had stopped the rapport, completely: I’m not the guy that receives a no. She came to me trying to get an emotional reaction. I told her I’m deleting her number and she will have to decide, I’m doing something I’ve never done in my life: I’ll let her decide, she knows what she wants, what she can get … but it’s her choice. (Of corse I didn’t delete her number, only put a DUNNO_ in front of it). I threw her on a door at a closed store and kissed her there before we left (the prince and the princess). It was a life story.

Living the life

This post includes everything: partying like there’s no tomorrow, kissing each of the 3 girls that lived together while their roommates watched and … fucking in front of the club … FOR THE THIRD TIME!

Let’s start with the beginning:

Earlier this week…

… (Sunday) I went on a date with a girl I sarged, she wasn’t my type so I played social game.

… (Monday) I fucked a girl on our first date (and recorded the interaction from the beginning till her orgasms). Good fuck!

… (Wednesday) I invited some friends for chit chat (including a classmate from college). I only kissed her for 2 seconds while the others kissed, no other move. She stayed over and we fucked. Second good fuck! I also ignored calls from my lay from Monday.

… (Friday / today) …

Today …

… I ignored messages from my Monday lay (because I wanted to go clubbing without the girl I just laid)

… I got a table at a frequented bar in my area, inviting a lot of friends. Two of them already had a table there. The Social Girl from Sunday came with 2 girls and a guy. I befriended them and we chit-chated while my other guests arrived.

SURPRISE!

My lay from Sunday, Horny Girl was invited by Social Girl! She came with 2 girls (both fucking cute). She was very surprised and a bit mad as I didn’t give any sign for 4 days. The girls started dancing and I told Horny Girl I gave her an email about what we talked Monday (a lie that created the idea that I tried contacting her). I dirty danced with everyone and the mood was great. Then I went PUA mood:

I had another table where an ex lay held her birthday; I introduced my wing and other guys in that set and DHVed them. My wing also opened a nearby 3 set where he encountered HB Flexible (his flake from 6 months ago). Another friend of mine told my wing that he laid HB Flexible.

I returned to my table, dirty danced with everyone and number closed HB Cute (HB Horny’s roommate number one). She was good looking and I did a bit of comfort, asked her hard qualifying questions (to which she responded well as I was DHVed by all the people at the table). She number closed me!

I dirty danced with HB Horny again, with other girls, I talked with a dancer (another ex lay) and she DHVed me again. Then I kissed roommate number 2, HB Deep and continued dancing (jealousy plotline in action).

Returning to my other table I number closed HB Flexible after I danced with her (and man she was horny). I held a strong frame and told her we won’t meet Saturday, we’ll meet Sunday, before dark ;-) . She number closed me.

While dancing with another girl I noticed HB Horny’s buying temperature rising and I told one of the guys that I’ll lay HB Horny in front of the club. I went to her, took her from the guy, danced a bit and asked if she’s spontaneous and once she qualified I took her hand and took her outside. In 20 seconds we were in a relatively isolated place (one guy asked what were we doing but he left). We had a quick fuck there and we returned to the club, directly to the bathroom … couldn’t help but brag to my wing, showing him her mudded blouse.

Then, I went into deep comfort with HB Deep: she told me I knew things about people and I told her I could tell a lot about her. I tried a kiss close but she didn’t comply (even though I could touch her … so I understood I needed to build rapport). I cold read every inch of her body (we shared a commonality: one of my exes (which one?) was born in a town near her). I told her about the year she lost her virginity, about how she feels when she goes to clubs, how many guys she had, why she dresses as she dresses and how she suppresses many needs in her life due to the image she has in her friends’ eyes. We talked about Jung’s shadow and how she can have fun … not now … but when she feels that need … that strong need inside her like when NOW, she feels that … NEEDs when she knows she met someone (insert strong NLP self-invented pattern here). We built a strong connection and she number closed me. While we talked HB Cute interrupted us trying to steal her friend but she wouldn’t go; she was deep in the interaction. Meanwhile, I played with HB Horny’s hand trying to play for a 3 way kiss close but HB Horny left while we were talking so I kiss closed HB Deep. I also pre-framed HB Cute as being jealous in case of more interruptions.

After I number closed the roommates HB Cute sit down and talked for 30 minutes with HB Deep (about me of corse). I ignored them and number closed a girl from college that was the party type (and at our nearby table, seeing me flirting with all those girls). My fuckbuddy from my Virgin Mary LR came and we danced together and my wing told me to create comfort with another HB he brought there. I danced with her, she danced well so I cold read she did dances (she was a hip hop dancer). I tried some commonalities but couldn’t hit the spot … so I hard qualified her. She didn’t know how to qualify so I used my she-number-closes-me routine on her and she took my number. I didn’t DHV as I didn’t know her status with my wing (who was sarging other girls at that moment).

Total: 5 number closes, 3 kiss closes and 1 lay. I didn’t open ONE SET!

Key points:

  • my abs: putting girls’ hands on my abs make them extremely horny
  • ask girls if they are spontaneous and if they qualify, isolate them
  • make them number close you: hard qualification (what makes you special with all the beautiful girls here) + be impressed (if you are) + SOI and number close her: “ok, I like the way you think, write my number!”. Ff she doesn’t qualify well: “I see … ok, then I don’t promise anything but conversation” or “you’re not my type, I really prefer X girls” (check if she qualifies for X)
  • having a table and inviting a lot of people (we were over 20 people at the table or near) works in your favor
  • you can kiss close girls in front of other girls you kiss closed the same night, also you can number close and let them figure out what you want from them ;-)
  • deep interactions can go over club superficiality (I framed myself in the girl’s eyes that we all party here and who we truly are we’ll find in person) => I could kiss close girls without her feeling bad or betrayed
  • knowing one of the dancers, the waitress and the owner worked great
  • club energy matters: it was high but you could speak well

A new Roadmap Model

Progress versus Correction

When I started out, the Roadmap + Sticking Points System was the best idea I ever had. I went in field with 1 new thing to practice and 3 things to correct. In two months I reached the next level, my main game was solid and I could number close at a good rate.

On Roadmap 2.0 however, I find myself continuously missing occasions to practice the advanced tactics I want to learn and I’m asking myself, shouldn’t I take it another way?

I’ve read The Game Acceleration Doctrine by Sinn and he recommends working on Sticking Points and fixing what doesn’t work instead of learning new things (and still getting stuck at what you haven’t corrected). It seems to be a good idea even though you don’t quite progress that way, mostly you correct yourself (which could give results).

After I finish my Roadmap 2.0 I’m going to develop a new Roadmap technique.

Roadmap 3.0

My ideas so far:

  • sticking points don’t have a separate page, they go on next week’s roadmap module (a technique I’ve read in DWM – time management)
  • roadmap isn’t built from the start (I don’t need comfort routines, I’m a natural comfort chatter, that’s the reason I’ve got so many LJBFs a year ago), I just add the next module when the week is over (weekly modules)
  • I’m going to concentrate on small routines and frames instead of generic techniques (e.g. use one C&F reply 3 times) -> once I have default answers I can improvise
  • I’m going to count my rate of success (monthly number close rate, flake rate and f-rate) so I can have a progress bar
  • I’m going in 3 steps: 1 module learning + 1 module perfecting + 1 module correction (e.g. learn sexual tension, get advanced sexual tension techniques, calibrate correctly)
  • I’m going to use an INBOX where I’ll put all the things I want to learn and I’m going to select only the most important ones for the following week (Scrum development)

REVIEW: 29.09.2009

R: 29.09.2009

Good points:

  • (+++) Day game

Bad points:

  • (-9) Pebbles, bantering, cocky funny
  • (-4) Mysterious, silence game
  • (-2) Deep club voice
  • (-2) Seeding
  • (-2) Open threads
  • (-2) seeding

What I corrected since my last review:

  • good day game
  • kiss close on day 2
  • bantering / vibing
  • international game (foreign pickup)

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • pebbles, bantering, cocky funny

A break from the game

I’m into a relationship now. I won’t quit meeting new people in bars and on the street but I won’t cheat and I’ll concentrate on the S* part of my roadmap.

Note: this blog will not be closed, I’ll still post field reports and experiences in socializing using sarging techniques.

REVIEW: 10.11.2008

R: 8.10.2008

Good points:

  • (+++) Day game mostly OK
  • (+2) BL
  • (+2) EC
  • (+1) Reframing
  • (+1) Opening mixed sets
  • (+1) Day sarges
  • (+1) Direct
  • (+1) Kino

 

Bad points:

  • (-10) A3
  • (-8) Club Game
  • (-8) Comfort
  • (-6) C&F
  • (-3) playful
  • (-3) flaking
  • (-2) seeding

 

What I corrected since my last review:

  • added more material
  • improved general game
  • good day game
  • boldness
  • sexual escalation

 

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • A3
  • club game
  • comfort
  • cocky and funny
  • seeding

New way to post field reports

This was taken from whim’s blog. Instead of posting my good points, bad points and sticking points I will concentrate on the following:

  • good points
  • bad points (that added up will make my sticking points)
  • where I lost the set
  • things to do differently
I think this is an efficient way of viewing FRs.

Statistics!

I have 22 phone numbers (after I deleted some girls that suddenly realized they have a boyfriend, weren’t interesting or didn’t want to meet me). I wanted to call them for tonight (house club) and here are the results:

  • 22 phone numbers I didn’t fuck
  • 5 are backups (not interesting)
  • 6 didn’t answer after I called them twice
  • 8 are occupied or are in another town
  • from the 3 left: one is not cute (but she’s into threesomes) and 2 like retro music

Even with 22 phone numbers I could convince only one girl to come, the retro one, (and some girls I knew from before).

REVIEW: 8.10.2008

R: 8.10.2008

Good points:

  • (+6) calibration
  • (+2) A1, A2
  • (+2) Friendly Kino
  • (+2) Eye contact
  • (+2) Socializing

 

Bad points:

  • (-7) sexual (Kino Escalation)
  • (-3) day 2 escalation
  • (-2) not going direct before losing set
  • (-2) no NLP to improve state in clubs
  • (-2) not gaming the obstacle
  • (-2) comfort/rapport
  • (-2) short funny stories

 

What I corrected since my last review:

  • slow talk
  • calibration
  • entering a set and not running game

 

What I’m in the process of correcting:

  • I added some material (short funny stories)
  • comfort/rapport tactics

Rating system for girls

I have a subjective idea of what a HB is so from now on I’ll use this rating system. This is not meant to objectify a woman, it is primarily used to rate a girl based on her looks. Ratings may vary up to 2 points (HB8 in club -> HB7 in the morning). I will use a personality scale if I find it useful (I sometimes find a HB7 with a personality of 9) but I’ll concentrate on looks.

 

HB10: Has both an incredibly-hot face and an incredibly-hot body. HB10s are very rare. They have the combination of looks and body found in actresses and models.

HB9: Possesses one aspect from an HB10 (face or body) and one from an HB8. Will have an incredibly-hot face and very attractive body, or vice-versa.

HB8: Has both a very attractive face and a very attractive body. GF material.

HB7: Possesses one aspect from an HB8 (face or body) and one from an HB6. Will have a very attractive face and a body of average attractiveness, or vice-versa.

HB6: Has both a face and a body of average attractiveness. HB6s are the type of girl that no guy would be ashamed to have sex with and some are good GF material, but their level of attractiveness is fairly common.

HB5: Possesses one aspect from an HB6 (face or body) and one from an HB4. Will have a face of average attractiveness and a below-average body, or vice-versa. HB5s are layable, but they are not attractive enough to justify putting in any effort. They should only be laid during drunken hook-ups or to break a dry-spell.

UG4: Has a face and body of below-average attractiveness.

UG3: The definition of “ugly”.

UG2: Morbidly obese. Possible hygiene issues.

UG1: Physical deformities or very elderly.

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