FR: Best club game – stripper style

FR 16.10.2009

Like last year, I opened two girls on the street that I opened before. It’s happening all over again!

I went to a stand-up comedy show and invited a lot of girls from my social circle. I had so much DHV that I was basically in the center of attention. I timebridged a party with a girl that had 2 gorgeous friends. I didn’t game them, just acted cool and uninterested. A girl I gamed a while back came with her friend which I closed easily after that much social proof PU ID 103.

After that I went clubbing with a boy and a girl. We danced a lot, had a lot of fun and basically became the party animals I knew we were. She spanked my ass and I danced in a very dirty way with her. I then met with 3 friends from my social circle and had a lot of fun with them too. I also invited a boy to a party and left him talk to my friend for his number thus connecting two groups with great women in them for tonight.

Good stuff: Great night game: be very loud, shout like no one else shouts and hot dance with everyone!

Bad stuff: I didn’t open in night game. I could have easily opened some girls nearby that had a lot of fun.

Things to do differently: Ask an opener to my group then ask a group nearby.

FR: Bantering owns, club game – rocks

FR 29.09.2009

Set 150 – 6 set: I opened a 3 set with an opinion opener and then their friends came. I quickly made acquaintance with 3 other boys that joined the set and bantered and had a lot of fun. I didn’t use any routines, just bantered and bantered. I had a lot of fun, joked with my target and vibed with the group. I took the group leader’s mess id for a party as logistically I couldn’t close my target indirectly. PS: I tried to but she wasn’t interested in the threads I opened for the close.

Good stuff: Opened 6 set, vibed with all the group.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I could’ve created other interesting threads that could result in a number close.

Night game

Set 151 – 6 set (PU ID 89): I opened a HB9 and vibed with her and her friends. It was my second mixed set. After a lot of fun and a cool isolation I’ve set a date 2 for today.

Good stuff: Opened mixed set, vibed.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Set 152 – 3 set (PU ID 90): I opened them directly and vibed with the whole group. My target was talkative and had a business going but she was a HB6.5. I dirty danced with her and her friend and had a lot of fun. I isolated, #closed, K-closed  but after a while of dancing I got bored and the vibe started going down. I did a cool game that changed a bit the atmosphere and I left.

Good stuff: Everything.

Bad stuff: The vibe went down after a while.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Other noticeable things: I’ve met with PU ID 88 and after 5 minutes I left her alone to go to my friends. You should see her face! I’ve also met PU ID 83 and she danced all night. I’ll kiss her on a day 2. All in all I got 1 number close, 1 kiss close and went on a short 2nd date with one of my previous sarges. I also isolated all my sarges with success and I’m getting better and better at this game.

Things to do differently: Vin di Carlo’s escalation ladder, one night stands, get my standards up (tonight I sarged HB6.5, HB8 and HB9, I should ignore HB7s and go for the good looking ones).

FR 30.09.2009

Set 153 – 1 set HB9 (PU ID 91): A very cute girl passed by as I was going to work and I went after her. Went direct, vibed and did perfect game. I isolated her on a bench and got her number (even though she had a boyfriend).

Good stuff: Asking how long she was with her boyfriend (like 3 weeks). Getting her schedule (a very good move).

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

FR: Working on comfort game

I got decent A1->A3 game now and I need to learn my comfort game (and anti-flake techniques). I also get 1-2 new lays / month which is great and motivating.

FR 20.12.2008

Set 130 – 2 set – hot approach: Some friends of my friends. After A3 the girl wanted to dance more and she was getting drunk and instead of using this to my advantage another of my friends started dirty dancing with her.

Good stuff: A1, A2, A3, some comfort.

Bad stuff: No sexuality and no playfulness. Also no C&F and I didn’t make fun of her.

Where I lost the set: I didn’t loose the set and I didn’t close.

Things to do differently: More sexuality, she was into party mode and I didn’t realize.

Set 131 – 5 set (PU ID 72): Opened the girl over the shoulder while I was with some friends on the ring.

Good stuff: A1 with preselection, A2, A3, some comfort. Disappearances, meeting her friends, vibing with them.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Something she would remember me by.

FR 19.12.2008

Set 129 – 2 set: Opened them in the club (I told them I was waiting for some girls). I ignored and dominated the one I liked (she seemed to like it). They were both bigger tham me and the one I was into had a level 3 bitch shield. It didn’t ruin my frame but I couldn’t close.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: Too much incredibleness. My target was asking me if I knew about X too, trying to make fun of me.

Where I lost the set: They left.

Things to do differently: I stayed a lot in A2, should’ve gone into comfort with both (?!?).

FR 18.12.2008

Set 127 – 1 set: Opened a girl in the tram. She was very defensive until I teased her and then she was ok but she still had a boyfriend.

Good stuff: C&F.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: The tram arrived at her station.

Things to do differently: Didn’t tease her in the beginning. A funny game would help.

Set 128 – 1 set: Opened her directly. She kept asking me what I wanted and she was very defensive (and very beautiful). She didn’t understand a guy was picking her up I guess and she told me she had a boyfriend.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: I didn’t state the obvious: I want to pick you up. Bad BL and EC.

Where I lost the set: She said she had a boyfriend and I was obvious not on my way.

Things to do differently: I need to be more clear on what I want.

FR 12.12.2008

Set 126 – 1 set (PU ID 71): Opened a sangvinig girl in the bus. She’s into clubs and she learns a lot. Got her number but she flaked after.

Good stuff: Good close in those circumstances (the bus arrived at her destination). Handled logistics well.

Bad stuff: Nothing she would remember me by, I needed an anchor.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Cocky funny, COLD READING (display authority on her world)!!!

FR 11.12.2008

Set 125 – 1 set: Opened her on the street (after I’ve seen her in the bus). I opened the set without FTC, body rocking and she knew I was trying to pick her up. She didn’t have any cool experiences to share and I couldn’t find common interests with her in A3. She was also late (and in a BIG hurry).

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: A1 problems (FTC, body rocking, EC). I forgot about them (or didn’t really care).

Where I lost the set: When she was near her work place and didn’t want to give me her messenger id.

Things to do differently: A funny game when the girl is in a rush and something mindblowing (a very good cold read).

FR: Sarging in a loud club

FR 19.09.2008

Set 8 HB9: I opened her on the way to work but in the middle of my opener she had to take left. I was a bit in front of her and it was clear I wasn’t going in the same direction. So we split up. I SHOULD HAVE GONE DIRECT!

Some (girl) friends of mine invited me to a club. I’ve met some friends and here I go:

Set 9 HB9Blonde: I opened her in the disco, made acquaintance with her friends and negged her a bit. She wasn’t that attentive so I switched to her HB8.5 friend. She seemed a little bit interested but somehow it didn’t work. I ejected during A2 with the intention of going later. After a while I opened them again and when my I presented my wing the HB9Blonde turned over.

Set 10 HB8.5 Blonde: A friend of some friends (PU ID 5). I ran A2 on her, did a lot of kino and while I was talking with some friends she left. When she returned later I did some A3 but she kept telling me she was a good friend of my ex. I ignored that, isolated her and took her number. In the isolation she met her friends and I had some miscalibrations. I also left her a ring of mine (“are you a thief?” routine) and when I arrived I felt confident and asked my ex if it was ok if we went out. That made the blonde nervous in a bad way and she left to her friends. I sent her an SMS and she responded just about now (one hour after). She seems interested.

Good points:

• I’ve met some new people and ran social circle game (getting my friends acquainted with each other) even if it didn’t go that well (they split into groups soon after). I still appeared to every group that I had many many friends.

Bad points:

• Set 8 – should’ve gone direct (always get the number if you like the girl)
• Set 9 – bad game: should’ve made them comfortable with me … travel stories don’t work so well in a loud club -> I need to get short/funny ones
• Set 10 – bad social game: telling my ex in front of the girl that I liked her and we’ll date
• Set 10 – I should’ve been more masculine (I told her that she wanted to kiss me and she got into defensive, she also kept telling about her relationship with my ex which actually meant that she wanted me to give an excuse)

Sticking points:

• I am needy!!! I need a state of mind in which I really don’t care. I mean I don’t care if I get rejected by girl X but I get some bad emotions when I’m doing mistakes.
• I need more material in my game (eventually changing some routines) but before that, I want to learn all the phases.