FR: Game improving at an enhanced pace

It seems my game has improved a lot lately, I feed that I don’t need to post all my field reports as they follow the same structure. Here are the latest events:

 

Key girls I’ve met:

• 2 HB9s picked up from the mall, I used props and seeded an event for tomorrow
• a gorgeous girl I opened after she passwd me with: “STOP”. I took her to a bench nearby where we vibed. She’s into dancing, poetry and deep thoughts.
• poet girl in the club, she had beautiful eyes

Good things in my game:

• hugs (I’m hugging people now)
• props (I’m leaving girls small items that will make them remember me, they also want to return them to me)

Bad things in my game:

• flakes (I get flaked a lot, I should double date and flake on girls)
• fast sexual escalation (I’m working on it)

LR: How many hours to lay

I’ve met with a girl I was dating for some time and fucked her the first time. I want to review the process (and maybe I’ll review other interesting lays):

Timeline:

• - met her a month ago (5 min)
• - 2 days after we met on our day 2, no kiss (~50 min)
• - the same night we kissed then I brought her to my apartment, we got naked but LMR won (2 hours)
• - 3 days after we meet again, same LMR (2 hours)
• - 1 call during a week of pause (I gamed other girls; 5 min)
• - 1 week after the last LMR we meet for a drink (~40 min)
• - 2 days after I go to her apartment where we get naked and LMR again, I pretend I was nervous (even though I didn’t really care as I was fucking other girls) and her roommate came (2 hours)
• - 1 week of pause
• - we try to get a movie night friday (I flake), sunday (she flakes) and yesterday we met
• - SEX!!! we fuck with no LMR whatsoever (I wanted a massage while we were kissing and she’s asking me: “Now?!?” -> sex was clear)

The girl: she is a HB 8, bored with life and without much experience in anything.She has also low, stable self esteem.

Total number of hours spent with her: 7 hours and 40 minutes (aproximately).

Notes:

• other girls don’t give me this kind of LMR or reactions
• I think she gave in to sex unconsciously in order to prevent losing me (as I was seeing her once a week)

Things to do differently: more comfort, sharing commonalities, an adventure somewhere in our interaction. I couldn’t really do them as she was pretty boring.

Key points I learned from this interaction:

• if you don’t call girls for a week, especially girls that don’t go clubbing they’ll think about you
• 5-10 hours until sex (Mystery’s rule) works
• keep dating girls you’ve met a while ago, you’ll lay them sooner rather than later

General notes regarding my sarging skills

It seems I have progressed far more than I realized. While reviewing my old results now I can kiss girls on second dates, get dates easily and once I get the initial approach I can easily number close (and sometimes kiss close).

I’m also active in correcting my current sticking point (flaky girls and tactics to overcome that) by giving girls props (a letter with my poem, a ring or something to feel obliged to meet). I’ll see how it goes I’m also not affected by girls rejecting me in clubs (before having a chance to talk to them) and I almost get all the girls in day game.

I tried raising my standards as I can get a lot of numbers in the HB7-8 range but rarely get with girls HB9.5+, the main problem is that I don’t find extremely attractive girl during day game. I’m looking for girls looking gorgeous, wearing high heels, being spontaneous, being deep (writing poems or feeling sensations at another level) and traveling. I’m usually amazed if I get 4 out of 5 and those are the girls that get the 9.5 in my book. Meanwhile, I’m still practicing with HB7-8 girls

In the future I’m going to fix the rest of my game (A3->C) and start a module based only in group theory. I’m going to learn how to socialize with groups, hook up with a girl surrounded by 8 guys, etc. I also started teaching pickup and having results from people finding themselves in different areas of life.

FR: Perfect A2

FR 5.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

Today I got my standards up (because I’m dating 15 girls right now and I must cut the ones that are medium or I can’t vibe with). Basically I scouted the center of the town for HBs and couldn’t find a good looking girl on HEELS. Yep, from now on I’ll try hitting only on girls that are good looking and wear heels, this is the first condition. I had a DAY 2 with PU ID 88 and I’m not interested in her anymore. I also had a DAY 2 with PU ID 95 and from a HB 6.5 with big breasts I can only give her an UG 3 now (I was very aggressive in the date, trying to scare her off but she seemed to enjoy it and she was very attracted to me … YEAK!). In the night I was flaked by 2 dates (a real flake and a “I’m sick” flake) and I ejected from 2 sets because the first one was a high school girl very hot in her small skirt and the other one had a boyfriend.

I’m facing the problem I had last year in which I have so many girls with which I’m parallel dating and I can’t close any of them because I’m not attentive.

I’ve developed 5 rules for this:

• only open: HB9+, HB8+ very well dressed, mixed sets
• phone for a date, on 3 tries => delete
• always prefer the ones I K-closed to the ones I didn’t
• setup parallel dates at 18:30, 21 and 23 and if they don’t flake I’ll choose one to flake on (try to pair up flaky girl with HB9+)
• on <HB8 be very sexually aggressive (all or nothing approach, invite them to my house, etc) … see how it goes

Set 158– HB9 and HB9: A great “Are you a pitzi?” opener when I caught them taking pictures of themselves on the street. I’ve ran perfect A2: cocky funny, bantering, words with double meanings, angel/devil melodrama and got high spikes in attraction but I couldn’t get into A3. They had so much fun in A2 they didn’t answer to my A3 cold reads. The energy went down when 2 guys they knew came by and I couldn’t close the girl I wanted. A2 was perfect, the rest wasn’t. If I would have had a wing I could have isolated my target and all would have worked perfectly. Oh well!

Good stuff: Perfect A2 but I couldn’t get into A3 as they were too much fun.

Bad stuff: Couldn’t get into A3.

Where I lost the set: The girl was thinking of giving me her number while 2 (guy) friends stared.

Things to do differently: Now that I think of it I should have tried hard A3: tell me 3 things that make you different and close after that or act cool like I just don’t care. Also a cool move would have been to close the guys for a party and then the girls … but it wasn’t solid.

FR 6.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

I’m keeping my standards now and I don’t enter the sets if they aren’t great. I hooked 2 girls but they weren’t locals AND they didn’t stay for the night. I also opened 2 girls with boyfriends so no success there. It gets challenging when you’re going for the heels HBs

A new roadmap

I completed the first roadmap I prepared for myself and now, with the techniques learn and the feedback gained I’m working on my second roadmap. This will work towards the feeling of life and less on learning PU. I’m now looking for new experiences not for same old dates with boring girls. Get the girl when she’s with her mum, get an orgy going … ENJOY LIFE!

Why any man must learn PU

Because of this.

A break from the game

I’m into a relationship now. I won’t quit meeting new people in bars and on the street but I won’t cheat and I’ll concentrate on the S* part of my roadmap.

Note: this blog will not be closed, I’ll still post field reports and experiences in socializing using sarging techniques.

The power of cold reading

Derren Brown – Cold Reading

Statistics!

I have 22 phone numbers (after I deleted some girls that suddenly realized they have a boyfriend, weren’t interesting or didn’t want to meet me). I wanted to call them for tonight (house club) and here are the results:

• 22 phone numbers I didn’t fuck
• 5 are backups (not interesting)
• 6 didn’t answer after I called them twice
• 8 are occupied or are in another town
• from the 3 left: one is not cute (but she’s into threesomes) and 2 like retro music

Even with 22 phone numbers I could convince only one girl to come, the retro one, (and some girls I knew from before).

DHVing too much?

I sometimes find girls that don’t get attracted in the beginning. So I continue DHVing, telling stories about adventures and other stuff. Then I find out I DHVed too much (they think we don’t mach).

 

Basically: A1 -> A2 -> doesn’t hook -> A2 -> doesn’t hook -> A2 -> we don’t match

 

A solution would be to find a connection and exploit that. I’m looking for more ways to solve this problem.