LR: Virgin Mary

I’m writing this as it’s an interesting lay report and things can be learned from it. I’ll censure most parts of the story as somebody reading this could know her.

Number close:

I got her number in a club at Halloween because I liked the way she was dressed (sexy geisha).

First date + kiss close:

At our first date we kiss closed and we had a lot of things to talk about (she’s in the top 30 smartest Romanian achievers list). I also learned she was a virgin so she was a no-no in my mind (oh, almost forgot: a bisexual virgin). She wasn’t exclusive (g’yeah!).

Second date:

We went clubbing and she was a good (aka sexy) dancer with a high desire to have fun in every way possible (we dared each other to do adventurous things in the club).

Third date:

I arrived home from a trip on Sunday and I was exhausted. Before I went to bed I called some girls so I can set a date after I wake up, in the night. We’ve met for a drink in the park, ran from dogs, spilled drinks while running, et cetera et cetera. We also talked about seduction, getting girls in bed and life theories (I was preparing her as a pivot). We arrived at my home to play a table game (yeah right). After a lot of talking (and telling secrets) we massaged each other and then started making out.

F-Close:

She told me she was sexually assaulted when she was little and was now traumatized about sexual intercourse. I continued making out with her using common LMR techniques and calming her and got LMR due to trauma flashbacks. Here’s the technique I developed to pass this: I told her to hug me and kiss me as nothing exists each time it hurt or she had a flashback. She did so and we fucked. After she felt very good about the experience, she passed one of her greatest fear (that kept her from sex for a long time).

The questions:

Q: “When did you realize you wanted to have sex with me?”

R: “When we went at your place … but I was very scared. Talking about my problems helped a lot.”

Q: “When were you first attracted to me?”

R: “A little in the club due to the way I behaved and the games I knew and a lot at our second date when we discussed high level subjects.”

Final thoughts:

I don’t want to have sex with virgins. There’s too much involvement. Why I had this exception, you may wonder. Well, it’s because she’s a very kind and smart person and I perceive her as a very good friend (with benefits). I wouldn’t like anyone else to do it for her. If the boy would’ve been less experienced she would have been traumatized the second time.

Key points:

• having vast experience with women, a pickup artist should know how to help them in case of need (but he shouldn’t be responsible for them), note the technique in the F-Close section
• talking about traumas helps a lot, it makes the woman feel safe around you (you understand her)
• she didn’t want to come to me when we talked at the phone, but she did in the middle of the date; create adventure then lead to the desired destination
• when you bring a woman over, she knows you two might have sex

FR: Game improving at an enhanced pace

It seems my game has improved a lot lately, I feed that I don’t need to post all my field reports as they follow the same structure. Here are the latest events:

 

Key girls I’ve met:

• 2 HB9s picked up from the mall, I used props and seeded an event for tomorrow
• a gorgeous girl I opened after she passwd me with: “STOP”. I took her to a bench nearby where we vibed. She’s into dancing, poetry and deep thoughts.
• poet girl in the club, she had beautiful eyes

Good things in my game:

• hugs (I’m hugging people now)
• props (I’m leaving girls small items that will make them remember me, they also want to return them to me)

Bad things in my game:

• flakes (I get flaked a lot, I should double date and flake on girls)
• fast sexual escalation (I’m working on it)

LR: How many hours to lay

I’ve met with a girl I was dating for some time and fucked her the first time. I want to review the process (and maybe I’ll review other interesting lays):

Timeline:

• - met her a month ago (5 min)
• - 2 days after we met on our day 2, no kiss (~50 min)
• - the same night we kissed then I brought her to my apartment, we got naked but LMR won (2 hours)
• - 3 days after we meet again, same LMR (2 hours)
• - 1 call during a week of pause (I gamed other girls; 5 min)
• - 1 week after the last LMR we meet for a drink (~40 min)
• - 2 days after I go to her apartment where we get naked and LMR again, I pretend I was nervous (even though I didn’t really care as I was fucking other girls) and her roommate came (2 hours)
• - 1 week of pause
• - we try to get a movie night friday (I flake), sunday (she flakes) and yesterday we met
• - SEX!!! we fuck with no LMR whatsoever (I wanted a massage while we were kissing and she’s asking me: “Now?!?” -> sex was clear)

The girl: she is a HB 8, bored with life and without much experience in anything.She has also low, stable self esteem.

Total number of hours spent with her: 7 hours and 40 minutes (aproximately).

Notes:

• other girls don’t give me this kind of LMR or reactions
• I think she gave in to sex unconsciously in order to prevent losing me (as I was seeing her once a week)

Things to do differently: more comfort, sharing commonalities, an adventure somewhere in our interaction. I couldn’t really do them as she was pretty boring.

Key points I learned from this interaction:

• if you don’t call girls for a week, especially girls that don’t go clubbing they’ll think about you
• 5-10 hours until sex (Mystery’s rule) works
• keep dating girls you’ve met a while ago, you’ll lay them sooner rather than later

General notes regarding my sarging skills

It seems I have progressed far more than I realized. While reviewing my old results now I can kiss girls on second dates, get dates easily and once I get the initial approach I can easily number close (and sometimes kiss close).

I’m also active in correcting my current sticking point (flaky girls and tactics to overcome that) by giving girls props (a letter with my poem, a ring or something to feel obliged to meet). I’ll see how it goes I’m also not affected by girls rejecting me in clubs (before having a chance to talk to them) and I almost get all the girls in day game.

I tried raising my standards as I can get a lot of numbers in the HB7-8 range but rarely get with girls HB9.5+, the main problem is that I don’t find extremely attractive girl during day game. I’m looking for girls looking gorgeous, wearing high heels, being spontaneous, being deep (writing poems or feeling sensations at another level) and traveling. I’m usually amazed if I get 4 out of 5 and those are the girls that get the 9.5 in my book. Meanwhile, I’m still practicing with HB7-8 girls

In the future I’m going to fix the rest of my game (A3->C) and start a module based only in group theory. I’m going to learn how to socialize with groups, hook up with a girl surrounded by 8 guys, etc. I also started teaching pickup and having results from people finding themselves in different areas of life.

FR: Perfect A2

FR 5.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

Today I got my standards up (because I’m dating 15 girls right now and I must cut the ones that are medium or I can’t vibe with). Basically I scouted the center of the town for HBs and couldn’t find a good looking girl on HEELS. Yep, from now on I’ll try hitting only on girls that are good looking and wear heels, this is the first condition. I had a DAY 2 with PU ID 88 and I’m not interested in her anymore. I also had a DAY 2 with PU ID 95 and from a HB 6.5 with big breasts I can only give her an UG 3 now (I was very aggressive in the date, trying to scare her off but she seemed to enjoy it and she was very attracted to me … YEAK!). In the night I was flaked by 2 dates (a real flake and a “I’m sick” flake) and I ejected from 2 sets because the first one was a high school girl very hot in her small skirt and the other one had a boyfriend.

I’m facing the problem I had last year in which I have so many girls with which I’m parallel dating and I can’t close any of them because I’m not attentive.

I’ve developed 5 rules for this:

• only open: HB9+, HB8+ very well dressed, mixed sets
• phone for a date, on 3 tries => delete
• always prefer the ones I K-closed to the ones I didn’t
• setup parallel dates at 18:30, 21 and 23 and if they don’t flake I’ll choose one to flake on (try to pair up flaky girl with HB9+)
• on <HB8 be very sexually aggressive (all or nothing approach, invite them to my house, etc) … see how it goes

Set 158– HB9 and HB9: A great “Are you a pitzi?” opener when I caught them taking pictures of themselves on the street. I’ve ran perfect A2: cocky funny, bantering, words with double meanings, angel/devil melodrama and got high spikes in attraction but I couldn’t get into A3. They had so much fun in A2 they didn’t answer to my A3 cold reads. The energy went down when 2 guys they knew came by and I couldn’t close the girl I wanted. A2 was perfect, the rest wasn’t. If I would have had a wing I could have isolated my target and all would have worked perfectly. Oh well!

Good stuff: Perfect A2 but I couldn’t get into A3 as they were too much fun.

Bad stuff: Couldn’t get into A3.

Where I lost the set: The girl was thinking of giving me her number while 2 (guy) friends stared.

Things to do differently: Now that I think of it I should have tried hard A3: tell me 3 things that make you different and close after that or act cool like I just don’t care. Also a cool move would have been to close the guys for a party and then the girls … but it wasn’t solid.

FR 6.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

I’m keeping my standards now and I don’t enter the sets if they aren’t great. I hooked 2 girls but they weren’t locals AND they didn’t stay for the night. I also opened 2 girls with boyfriends so no success there. It gets challenging when you’re going for the heels HBs

A new roadmap

I completed the first roadmap I prepared for myself and now, with the techniques learn and the feedback gained I’m working on my second roadmap. This will work towards the feeling of life and less on learning PU. I’m now looking for new experiences not for same old dates with boring girls. Get the girl when she’s with her mum, get an orgy going … ENJOY LIFE!

Why any man must learn PU

Because of this.

A break from the game

I’m into a relationship now. I won’t quit meeting new people in bars and on the street but I won’t cheat and I’ll concentrate on the S* part of my roadmap.

Note: this blog will not be closed, I’ll still post field reports and experiences in socializing using sarging techniques.

The power of cold reading

Derren Brown – Cold Reading

Statistics!

I have 22 phone numbers (after I deleted some girls that suddenly realized they have a boyfriend, weren’t interesting or didn’t want to meet me). I wanted to call them for tonight (house club) and here are the results:

• 22 phone numbers I didn’t fuck
• 5 are backups (not interesting)
• 6 didn’t answer after I called them twice
• 8 are occupied or are in another town
• from the 3 left: one is not cute (but she’s into threesomes) and 2 like retro music

Even with 22 phone numbers I could convince only one girl to come, the retro one, (and some girls I knew from before).