FR: Perfect A2

FR 5.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

Today I got my standards up (because I’m dating 15 girls right now and I must cut the ones that are medium or I can’t vibe with). Basically I scouted the center of the town for HBs and couldn’t find a good looking girl on HEELS. Yep, from now on I’ll try hitting only on girls that are good looking and wear heels, this is the first condition. I had a DAY 2 with PU ID 88 and I’m not interested in her anymore. I also had a DAY 2 with PU ID 95 and from a HB 6.5 with big breasts I can only give her an UG 3 now (I was very aggressive in the date, trying to scare her off but she seemed to enjoy it and she was very attracted to me … YEAK!). In the night I was flaked by 2 dates (a real flake and a “I’m sick” flake) and I ejected from 2 sets because the first one was a high school girl very hot in her small skirt and the other one had a boyfriend.

I’m facing the problem I had last year in which I have so many girls with which I’m parallel dating and I can’t close any of them because I’m not attentive.

I’ve developed 5 rules for this:

• only open: HB9+, HB8+ very well dressed, mixed sets
• phone for a date, on 3 tries => delete
• always prefer the ones I K-closed to the ones I didn’t
• setup parallel dates at 18:30, 21 and 23 and if they don’t flake I’ll choose one to flake on (try to pair up flaky girl with HB9+)
• on <HB8 be very sexually aggressive (all or nothing approach, invite them to my house, etc) … see how it goes

Set 158– HB9 and HB9: A great “Are you a pitzi?” opener when I caught them taking pictures of themselves on the street. I’ve ran perfect A2: cocky funny, bantering, words with double meanings, angel/devil melodrama and got high spikes in attraction but I couldn’t get into A3. They had so much fun in A2 they didn’t answer to my A3 cold reads. The energy went down when 2 guys they knew came by and I couldn’t close the girl I wanted. A2 was perfect, the rest wasn’t. If I would have had a wing I could have isolated my target and all would have worked perfectly. Oh well!

Good stuff: Perfect A2 but I couldn’t get into A3 as they were too much fun.

Bad stuff: Couldn’t get into A3.

Where I lost the set: The girl was thinking of giving me her number while 2 (guy) friends stared.

Things to do differently: Now that I think of it I should have tried hard A3: tell me 3 things that make you different and close after that or act cool like I just don’t care. Also a cool move would have been to close the guys for a party and then the girls … but it wasn’t solid.

FR 6.10.2009

VARIOUS SETS

I’m keeping my standards now and I don’t enter the sets if they aren’t great. I hooked 2 girls but they weren’t locals AND they didn’t stay for the night. I also opened 2 girls with boyfriends so no success there. It gets challenging when you’re going for the heels HBs

FR: Easy game on HB9.5

FR 1.10.2009

Set 154 – HB8.5: Opened in the night on a dark alley. Cool opener: “Hey, I know we’re in a dark alley but I just wanted to make acquaintance”. Good vibe but she was in a LTR. I didn’t close.

Good stuff: Opening in a dark alley.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: She had a boyfriend.

Things to do differently: -

FR 3.10.2009

Set 155 – HB9.5: Extremely gorgeous girl on the street. She’s clubbing in the capital, knows a lot of successful people and models. I had a good game but she had a boyfriend.

Good stuff: Good game: A1->A3

Bad stuff: Should have exploited a spike of interest: seed a day 2 with her boyfriend at a party.

Where I lost the set: She had a boyfriend, my seed didn’t work.

Things to do differently: If she’s very high status, seed a social day 2 with her boyfriend.

Set 156 – HB8.5: She saw me with the HB9.5 and I used this to open her. She had a boyfriend.

Set 157 – HB8.5 (PU ID 92): Opened good looking girl on the street. She was very talkative and I’ve run great game A1->C1 on the street. Since she wasn’t resistant to me stopping her there I planned an insta-date. We went for a cup of tea and we had a lot of fun. I also left her with a cheap ring (as a prop).

Good stuff: Good game: A1->C1 + INSTA-DATE!!! Prop so she’ll meet me again.

Bad stuff: Not enough commonalities in A3.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Listen more to what she says, evoke her emotions for the stories she tells.

Day 2 with PU ID 94: She’s the dancing type, I’ve ran good game even though the guy I brought was miserable and couldn’t hold a conversation (and … cockblocked me). I’ve got +++ as I wasn’t defazed from his amogging but — as he wasn’t a cool friend.

CLUBBING

Various sets: I didn’t vibe with any of the HB9+ girls, only HB8, HB7 && co. I couldn’t get attraction to HB9s and I didn’t break into their world. I still got a K-close from HB7.5 (PU ID 93)

Good stuff: It seems I can K-close in each clubbing session. I also left the club with PU ID 93 and my friends think I had a ONS (even though she refused to come when we were in the taxi in front of my home).

Bad stuff: The sets lost interest in A2. (possible reasons: I was the intruder, no social proof)

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Pebbles and small games that I can do to my friends and make them curious. Also the fact that a HB9 saw I kissed HB7.5 helped me talk to her but I didn’t close.

FR 4.10.2009

Day 2 with PU ID 93: Everything went well, I got into deep talk. I should’ve done more attraction but she’s still hooked. I got some feedback as to why girls don’t respond to guys calling on the second day (even though they kiss them).

PU ID 95 and PU ID 96: 2 sets while going and coming from the gym. On the first I was direct and got her number, on the second I was indirect but when I realized they were going to the taxi I got my target’s number without much game.

FR: Day game, getting my standards up

FR 1.10.2009

Set 151 – 2 set: Opened them on the street, direct. I didn’t do attraction that good (I should’ve played a game instead of trying to vibe). She told me she had a boyfriend (maybe that’s why she was so reserved). I didn’t close.

Good stuff: Got my standards up: HB8.5. I’m also very relaxed in sets and I have a very small AA that I can easily surpass.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: She had a boyfriend.

Things to do differently: Calibration, I noticed she didn’t answer to my vibing so I should have played a quick game.

Set 152 – HB8.5 (PU ID 90): Number closed easily, I even skipped opening.

Good stuff: Got my standards up: HB8.5

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Set 153 – HB7 (PU ID 91): I went after her because she had a great body but boy was I wrong … about the face. She wore sunglasses and she looked great with them but I can give her only a 7 without.

Good stuff: Vibed, took her from a bad mood to the moon. I seeded a date for tomorrow at the same time with my previous set (in case one of them flakes). I also negged her with style (the nickname she gave me sounded like a bird) and I’m more relaxed in sets now.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

PS: I recovered from not being answered by my PU ID 86 by asking for her chat id. She’s a model

PPS: I opened another girl I realized I didn’t like and I switched from direct to indirect in a matter of seconds.

FR: Bantering owns, club game – rocks

FR 29.09.2009

Set 150 – 6 set: I opened a 3 set with an opinion opener and then their friends came. I quickly made acquaintance with 3 other boys that joined the set and bantered and had a lot of fun. I didn’t use any routines, just bantered and bantered. I had a lot of fun, joked with my target and vibed with the group. I took the group leader’s mess id for a party as logistically I couldn’t close my target indirectly. PS: I tried to but she wasn’t interested in the threads I opened for the close.

Good stuff: Opened 6 set, vibed with all the group.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I could’ve created other interesting threads that could result in a number close.

Night game

Set 151 – 6 set (PU ID 89): I opened a HB9 and vibed with her and her friends. It was my second mixed set. After a lot of fun and a cool isolation I’ve set a date 2 for today.

Good stuff: Opened mixed set, vibed.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Set 152 – 3 set (PU ID 90): I opened them directly and vibed with the whole group. My target was talkative and had a business going but she was a HB6.5. I dirty danced with her and her friend and had a lot of fun. I isolated, #closed, K-closed  but after a while of dancing I got bored and the vibe started going down. I did a cool game that changed a bit the atmosphere and I left.

Good stuff: Everything.

Bad stuff: The vibe went down after a while.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Other noticeable things: I’ve met with PU ID 88 and after 5 minutes I left her alone to go to my friends. You should see her face! I’ve also met PU ID 83 and she danced all night. I’ll kiss her on a day 2. All in all I got 1 number close, 1 kiss close and went on a short 2nd date with one of my previous sarges. I also isolated all my sarges with success and I’m getting better and better at this game.

Things to do differently: Vin di Carlo’s escalation ladder, one night stands, get my standards up (tonight I sarged HB6.5, HB8 and HB9, I should ignore HB7s and go for the good looking ones).

FR 30.09.2009

Set 153 – 1 set HB9 (PU ID 91): A very cute girl passed by as I was going to work and I went after her. Went direct, vibed and did perfect game. I isolated her on a bench and got her number (even though she had a boyfriend).

Good stuff: Asking how long she was with her boyfriend (like 3 weeks). Getting her schedule (a very good move).

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

REVIEW: 29.09.2009

R: 29.09.2009

Good points:

• (+++) Day game

Bad points:

• (-9) Pebbles, bantering, cocky funny
• (-4) Mysterious, silence game
• (-2) Deep club voice
• (-2) Seeding
• (-2) Open threads
• (-2) seeding

What I corrected since my last review:

• good day game
• kiss close on day 2
• bantering / vibing
• international game (foreign pickup)

What I’m in the process of correcting:

• pebbles, bantering, cocky funny

FR: Bantering -> the new era of pickup

FR 28.09.2009

Set 149 – 4 set (PU ID 88): Opened them with an opinion opener. My wing came at the right moment, right when we made acquaintance. I didn’t have any vibe with the group but I continued gaming and bantering until they opened. Normal DHV routines didn’t work with them (maybe because they were working and didn’t travel that much). A girl tried running the cube on me so I busted her “balls” telling her she’s from a secret society and that she tries to impress guys with it. I gamed the 3 girls while my wing isolated and #closed his target and then he took control of the group until I isolated my target, run a game on her and got her number. She didn’t want to give it to me but after I said the 100% perfect girl story she gave her number. The conversation started going down so I rejoined the group with her. One of the girls kept amogging me and I negged her and bantered with the girls about her style

Good stuff: Opened 4set, forced the conversation until I’ve got the vibe, bantering!

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Another conversation technique in case my DHV routines don’t work, something on a lower note. More bantering/pebbles/funny things.

PS: I also K-closed a date on our day 2.

FR: Roadtrip to another country

FR 26.09.2009-27.09.2009

I’m not going to post all the field reports, only the basics.

Good stuff: We met some girls and stayed in set for like 5 hours, this was the most interesting set in the trip. I was in deep comfort with my girl (before the Kclose) when suddenly she looked for her girl friend (so she would feel safe).  She freaked out when she didn’t find her and talked about kidnaps that happened in her city at night. I couldn’t get my wing to answer so I was stuck with a freaked blonde in some park, by night in another country. I tried to calm her but couldn’t. When my wing returned with her friend she calmed herself but started interrupting them every minute and talking in their language. For like two hours I couldn’t get rapport with her. We did a lot of cool stuff in this set: they left to talk alone, we didn’t follow, they pretended to leave, we did also, they turned back for a quarter of the way, we returned for less then a quarter, etc. I also did a hot/cold game with the blonde that freaked her out BUT! after doing the silence dance (during which I made her friend laugh) she tried to have some rapport. For more rapport I also shared a vulnerability story and we LJBFed each other

Also we opened a 3set and I vibed with a cute dancer. I taught her salsa and fox (she learned the basics on second try … I was amazed) and all in all this was a great set. My target was also into photography and they’ll probably come to our town.

We vibed with a 2 set of salsa dancers. My wing opened the set and his target was the cute one, I was stuck talking to the UG3 while he got the number of a 8.5. Problem is, UG3 loves me and wants to come to my town and fuck me

Quickest facebook close: a 5set from Poland that we opened for directions, they traveled through Europe so we vibed on adventure and facebook closed them. It was like 2 minutes.

Before we left I kino-raped a HB7 on the street (for fun): heavy kino, talking about sex, she told me a drinking game and I facebook closed her after some bantering. It’s amazing what can you say to an innocent girl if you hold your frame.

A1: perfect opener for traveling: getting directions. Another good one: asking to translate your menu.

A2: We used games instead of stories because they are short and they are easily understood: 3 mice, the white room, others. The notebook rocks in other countries: I made sketches of the girls I talked to, cold reads based on signature and facebook closes with it.

A3: Easy to ask people about things they are interested in … mostly because we look to do similar things in their country. We vibed with girls on salsa dancing, travelling, photography or general ideas on life and sex.

C: Went great but I need some stories that create arousal and don’t land me into friends zone.

Closes: Mostly facebook closes, we exchanged numbers too. At least 3 groups wanted to come to our country for salsa, partying or visiting.

Winging works great because the wing can occupy 2+ people while I can game my target. Perfect winging topics: special places to visit, favorite clubs.

I winged a 5 set (2 guys and 3 girls) until my friend close the target.

Wing gamed HBlittle and asked her mother to take a picture with him.

Bad stuff: Didn’t escalate sexually, we were the fun boys from another country. Mostly, we didn’t game HB9+ girls.
Wing: lack of eye contact, in the beginning he had problems with A3.

Where I lost the sets: I usually didn’t lose sets, the exceptions were girls that didn’t know English. I remember a set which we hold for like 10 minutes, even after they’ve met some guys and in all this time, one of the girls HAD AN URGENT NEED TO PISS. Also another girl was gamed while she was in a hurry to an exam. Hilarious and great game

Things to do differently: Learn magic, it’s gold in another country.

FR: I should change my nightgame tactics

FR 25.09.2009

Night game: I talked with a lot of girls and here is the rundown. Found out my PU ID 84 has a boyfriend so I’ll only use this set for social game. Got a number from PU ID 87 (but she is no fun).

Good stuff: Opened girls a lot, got out with confidence when the boyfriend came.

Bad stuff: I talked a lot about my friends to fill the silence, I should have been more mysterious.

Where I lost the sets: I didn’t have pebbles for cvasi-drunk girls. I couldn’t get anywhere with them.

Things to do differently: Silence is cool! Good, deep club voice. I also need 5 second dhv stuff (pebbles, cocky funny).

FR: Girl alone in town

FR 25.09.2009

DAY 2 with PU ID 78 and 79: I’ve met with her at an ice cream and found they are both virgins (yeah right, talking about hot lesbian stuff).

Good stuff: Found out what I wanted, never see them again!

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

Set 148 – HB8 (PU ID 86): Dirty simple “Where is X” opener. After very little attraction I got her number (as she found out her destination). She told me she’s alone here and she’ll be leaving tomorrow. I’ll consider this an IOI and fuck her tonight.

Good stuff: Opened the hot girl everybody was looking at. I didn’t do any comfort because she had a destination but still

Bad stuff: I didn’t seed a date for tonight.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

FR: The dominatrix

FR 24.09.2009

Phone game with PU ID 83: We had a good rapport but we talked way too much on the phone and she started asking questions like “are you doing this to other girls?”, “why did you come to me?”. Then she tried to dominate the conversation telling me to stop talking and to do what she tells me. I told her I had to go, she told me not to close the phone, I told her the second time, she told me again. Only the third time I forced the close.

Good stuff: Instant rapport.

Bad stuff: I had an energy way above hers. I spoke too fast.

Things to do differently: I should have told her what she was doing when she tried to command me and make fun of her. The first time I wanted to close I should have closed the phone.

Set 147 – 3set HB8.5 (PU ID 85), HB8 (PU ID 84) and HB6.5: Opened them on my way home from the gym. The opener was bullshit but HB8 wanted to help. They were cool, I was cool … we all enjoyed the interaction.  I told a line somewhere and one of them caught me but I “escaped” . I also told them about a game I taught to a friend of mine and now he’s telling everyone about it … the cube and I was right by doing so as one of them knew about the game. I also found out that my target had a boyfriend in time (and that she is devoted to him. I didn’t seed a plan in time but I know to which club they are going and I plan to go with them tonight.

Good stuff: Opened the group perfectly, good frame, good calibration -> they loved me. Also found out that the HB8 was single and number closed them.

Bad stuff: I told a line.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I should have set the seed early on, also a story regarding the seed would help the close.