FR: Almost getting into LJBF … BE SEXUAL, BE ALPHA

FR 7.10.2008

Phone game – PU ID 17: She bailed my meeting for the night because she’s afraid of going solo (had some problems the night before when some guys followed her). I rescheduled for Sunday. I also introduced my (real) story where I protected some girls in a club from drunk guys.

Day 2 with PU ID 22: The girl I rated as HB6 that day was actually a HB8. Woow for the difference. She looks gorgeous and has a great body. She also dresses well, is very communicative and has a great personality. I discovered she likes bad boys which was a statement that leads to LJBF. I’ll try to act on the next date.

Day 3 – PU ID 25: She made other plans (again). It seems I didn’t learn my lesson the first time. This is the kind of girl that makes plans so I can’t just call her 1 hour before I want to go somewhere. She’s going with her friends and a guy who likes her. She made a jealousy plot and I fell through it. I said I can go too, it’ll be more interesting with 2 guys that like her, and I’ll win of course. She didn’t want that (but I appeared more alpha that way). I told her we will meet after and even though we had some sms chat she called 3 hours later (when I slept).

Set 47 – 3set HB9 HB6 UG4: I opened them in the bathroom (at the sinks). I spoke with HB6 (PU ID 28) while negging HB9 (did a great job by the way) but HB9 finished what she was doing and left before I finished a story in A2. I calibrated HB6 very well, took her number even though she told me she had a boyfriend with a trick I developed for these situations. She told me she is in a 2 year relationship so I won’t call her unless for a party where she can bring the HB9 (they are in the same year btw).

I opened 2 other girls but they were in a (real) hurry so I ejected after. The move was ok.

Good points:

• calibration
• finally a good opening for a 3 set (neg the SHB, talk to the group)
• good communication skills in dates

Bad points:

• I still get demoralized if I don’t get what I want, I should stay cool and learn from my mistakes

Sticking points:

• be more sexual
• lack of Day 2 directions (I think I got pretty dependent on the game)

TIP: If the girl tells stories, always tell stories that match

After a phone conversation with PU ID 17 I realized the mistake I made. She kept telling me things about herself that showed how insecure she was: guys hitting on her, girl raped in her town and other bad experiences.

The trick in rapport is to vibe with the girl and even though the conversation was ok I could’ve done more. I should’ve told a story that hit the “protector of loved ones” point.

In pickup, if a girl tells you a story about her friend getting raped, don’t talk about a beach party <btw: I didn’t do this>. Try something on a similar note like: “When my friend was slapped by this bouncer, I called my friends and …”

FR: Always make acquaintance with a girl’s friends

FR 6.10.2008

Set 45 HB8: This girl (PU ID 26) works as a promoter and organizes parties. She seems cool enough, sceptic and all the conversation with her was on the stairs of a dorm. She was rushing down, I wanted to go up. I got her id there (not a number) but it wasn’t the perfect place for comfort. 

Set 46 HB7: She (PU ID 27) has the perfect hair: natural curly brunette but she’s petite (very slim body). We’ve got a vibe going and I spent 40 minutes with her doing a lot of things. She told me she had a boyfriend (for about a week) which I reframed with “a week? haha, I don’t care” and it’s established: she’ll cook for me and we’ll go dancing together. She’s also a mountain girl, very talkative and a lot of fun.

Missed an opportunity with a HB9 that passed near me … I should’ve opened her.

Day 2 – PU ID 25: She excused herself because her friends wanted to go to a movie (I didn’t feel like it) but we met briefly. I made the biggest mistake I could possibly do: she was talking to me, separately from her friends and even though I asked to be introduced, I didn’t vibe with them (preferred gaming the girl).

Phone game – PU ID 17: We talked from 20 minutes (phone bill’s getting higher, I hope these are taken from the 7 hours <to sex> rule ). She kept telling me about some bad experiences she had with boys in general and I DID NOT RELATE. When I meet this girl I’ll have to insist upon the “protector of loved ones” part because she’s really afraid (she’s a dancer and all the guys try to pick her up).

Good points:

• calibration works great (once I find out the girl doesn’t do parties I calm my rhythm and tell her relevant stories)
• good eye contact (chicks really dig it)

Bad points:

• hope it’s a solo mistake (I even realized it in field) but ALWAYS talk with the girl’s friends

Sticking points:

• missing 9s and 10s because I see them just passing me (1 second to approach)

FR: Party party and my quest for numbers continues

FR 4.10.2008

 

Set 37 – HB6: Blonde girl (PU ID 22) I opened in the tram station. I like the way she talks, she sleeps a lot and as usual I had a smooth number close. 

Set 38 – 2set HB7 && HB6: I went to the dorms in search for my second number. Attractive body, medium face, she (PU ID 23) told me that she hadn’t gone out in a long time (she tried but friends kept bailing). Her girl friend has a BF so I should check logistics before inviting both of them somewhere.

Set 39 – HB7: Attractive body, cute face (I have to get used to the rating system). She (PU ID 24) goes out sometimes and she doesn’t work.

My number closes work so good now that I don’t remember details about my interactions. Once I start talking I know I’ll get the number (even if I find out later they have a boyfriend). I shouldn’t try to approach sets with sevens (unless they are mixed), it’s way too easy.

PU ID 17 called me and during the interaction she told me that we should meet a few times so that I should know her. That’s a strong IOI. I invited her to a food party at my friend but I should have a date with her before that.

Party with yesterday’s Set 34: HB 9.5 (PU ID 21) and HB7 (UG3 didn’t come). They didn’t announce me (I should’ve checked they were all coming) so we were 3 boys and 2 girls. We talked and drank until morning and I did a lot of comfort on my HB 9.5. It’s too bad I didn’t make an impression with the party. I should’ve started dancing with her etc etc. I didn’t escalate kino (dunno if it was proper with 2 other guys and 1 girl talking in front of us). She’s way taller than me (the first girl I gamed that was taller than me).

Good points:

• very good game with HB8s and less when they are solo or with 1 girl friend
• good comfort with the girl
• good eye contact

Bad points:

• NONE

Sticking points:

• lack of kino escalation

FR: Freshmen sarging

FR 2.10.2008

My plan for the whole month is to take 2 numbers / day (~60 numbers this month) with which I’ll have fun and party.

 

Set 29 HB9 && HB7: They opened me asking where a club was, I replied the club was no fun and I’ll take them to another more interesting location. I gamed both of them, took both of their number and got max attraction. I gave HB7 (PU ID 16) my cellphone to watch a movie while I did the cube on HB9. She loved it. Got in comfort with her and DHVed a lot by introducing them to a friend of mine that was a journalist and was doing detective work. (He occupied the HB7 until I gamed the HB9 PU ID 17). I left and they were both thrilled to meet me.

 

Set 30 HB9:  A 2 set I opened on the road. HB9Brunette was too cute to miss. I think I said I overheard some discussion they were having and recommended them a place with great cookies. Asked if they were freshmen (they were 3rd year) and HB9Brunette (PU ID 18) REMEMBERED ME FROM TWO YEARS AGO when I sold a friend of hers some books (they are at the same university as I am). I don’t think she liked me that much, rather she had a very good memory. I didn’t hook at the beginning but kept insisting, DHVing and my snowboarding hobby finally hooked them. It seems they don’t have the party party mentality but they like winter sports.

 

Day 2 with PU ID 15: She is a HB6 after all, don’t like her that much. I gamed her friends, practiced some things and all in all it was a cool night. I liked her HB8 friend (cute blonde that seemed more intelligent in the way she talked) but the truth is, they weren’t interesting.

 

Set 31 HB7 && HB7: At 1 a.m. I arrive to my dorm and I find 2 girls there, chatting. I open them and I jump straight to a cold read (without finishing my opener) just because . They didn’t hook at first but after more talking they hooked. I get the number of the blonde one (PU ID 19 - damn! I love blondes) and I’m not really interested but maybe we’ll party sometime.

 

Good points:

• very good calibration
• good kino in the beginning
• I am way more relaxed and not needy

Bad points:

• I need to be funny, not just “brag”
• I need to research Street Comfort

Sticking points: NONE – TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY