FR: Almost getting into LJBF … BE SEXUAL, BE ALPHA

FR 7.10.2008

Phone game – PU ID 17: She bailed my meeting for the night because she’s afraid of going solo (had some problems the night before when some guys followed her). I rescheduled for Sunday. I also introduced my (real) story where I protected some girls in a club from drunk guys.

Day 2 with PU ID 22: The girl I rated as HB6 that day was actually a HB8. Woow for the difference. She looks gorgeous and has a great body. She also dresses well, is very communicative and has a great personality. I discovered she likes bad boys which was a statement that leads to LJBF. I’ll try to act on the next date.

Day 3 – PU ID 25: She made other plans (again). It seems I didn’t learn my lesson the first time. This is the kind of girl that makes plans so I can’t just call her 1 hour before I want to go somewhere. She’s going with her friends and a guy who likes her. She made a jealousy plot and I fell through it. I said I can go too, it’ll be more interesting with 2 guys that like her, and I’ll win of course. She didn’t want that (but I appeared more alpha that way). I told her we will meet after and even though we had some sms chat she called 3 hours later (when I slept).

Set 47 – 3set HB9 HB6 UG4: I opened them in the bathroom (at the sinks). I spoke with HB6 (PU ID 28) while negging HB9 (did a great job by the way) but HB9 finished what she was doing and left before I finished a story in A2. I calibrated HB6 very well, took her number even though she told me she had a boyfriend with a trick I developed for these situations. She told me she is in a 2 year relationship so I won’t call her unless for a party where she can bring the HB9 (they are in the same year btw).

I opened 2 other girls but they were in a (real) hurry so I ejected after. The move was ok.

Good points:

• calibration
• finally a good opening for a 3 set (neg the SHB, talk to the group)
• good communication skills in dates

Bad points:

• I still get demoralized if I don’t get what I want, I should stay cool and learn from my mistakes

Sticking points:

• be more sexual
• lack of Day 2 directions (I think I got pretty dependent on the game)

FR: Party party and my quest for numbers continues

FR 4.10.2008

 

Set 37 – HB6: Blonde girl (PU ID 22) I opened in the tram station. I like the way she talks, she sleeps a lot and as usual I had a smooth number close. 

Set 38 – 2set HB7 && HB6: I went to the dorms in search for my second number. Attractive body, medium face, she (PU ID 23) told me that she hadn’t gone out in a long time (she tried but friends kept bailing). Her girl friend has a BF so I should check logistics before inviting both of them somewhere.

Set 39 – HB7: Attractive body, cute face (I have to get used to the rating system). She (PU ID 24) goes out sometimes and she doesn’t work.

My number closes work so good now that I don’t remember details about my interactions. Once I start talking I know I’ll get the number (even if I find out later they have a boyfriend). I shouldn’t try to approach sets with sevens (unless they are mixed), it’s way too easy.

PU ID 17 called me and during the interaction she told me that we should meet a few times so that I should know her. That’s a strong IOI. I invited her to a food party at my friend but I should have a date with her before that.

Party with yesterday’s Set 34: HB 9.5 (PU ID 21) and HB7 (UG3 didn’t come). They didn’t announce me (I should’ve checked they were all coming) so we were 3 boys and 2 girls. We talked and drank until morning and I did a lot of comfort on my HB 9.5. It’s too bad I didn’t make an impression with the party. I should’ve started dancing with her etc etc. I didn’t escalate kino (dunno if it was proper with 2 other guys and 1 girl talking in front of us). She’s way taller than me (the first girl I gamed that was taller than me).

Good points:

• very good game with HB8s and less when they are solo or with 1 girl friend
• good comfort with the girl
• good eye contact

Bad points:

• NONE

Sticking points:

• lack of kino escalation