FR: Good tips, day 2 kiss close and sex talk

FR 22.10.2008

Set 83 – HB6 (PUD ID 46) + 3 girls: I give a HB6 here because she is small but she is very cute. I know her from dance classes. I used the trust test (palm squeeze) to check if she was ready to receive my number. We left together (me and her friends) and I got her number (but didn’t do any comfort). I won’t call her until after the next dancing session.

Good stuff: I finally implemented the trust test.

Bad stuff: No comfort (due to the group being there).

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Play a game (which will make me different from the other guys).

 

Phone game with PU ID 43: I was at dance classes when I phoned her (which affected my game a bit). She flaked and she said maybe we aren’t right for each other. I think she’s the lonely type and I should decelerate and go into comfort.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: Didn’t build enough comfort before inviting her. I must practice calling girls just to build comfort.

Things to do differently: I must do more C1.

 

Found out PU ID 25 has a boyfriend, she told me on the phone but I used a BF destroyer and got the idea in her head that we should meet. I’ll call her later (when she dumped him or she is bored, to check things out. A lot of girls have boyfriends and still give me their number and when I phone them … they realize they did the wrong thing and we don’t meet.

 

Set 84 – HB8 (PUD ID 47) – 2 set: We had lots of things in common right from the start. She knew the pinky swear, we were hi5ing our way to comfort until my bus arrived. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend (but I still got her number).

Good stuff: Hugging and real connection. Only if I could relate to any set like that. Hooked the set so good that even her friend was happy that we had those similarities.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

 

TIP: How to meet a busy/flakey girl

Phone her and tell her you are at some friends near the place she lives, you’ll be leaving in an hour and you’d like to have a drink with her. If she refuses you don’t loose points (as you were just in the neighborhood). If she accepts you have an hour to arrive there. She’s also more likely to accept as she doesn’t have to go too far, she knows the place (which makes her feel secure) and you won’t look needy (you don’t go after her, you were just near by).

 

Day 2 with PU ID 32:  I used the tip above to Day 2 this girl. She came with a friend and we started talking. They were really chatty and we soon arrived to sex talk. The girls were sexually open, they had loads of experiences and I had a fun time. I kiss closed.

Good stuff: Hugging and my hand hold kino test that showed she was ready for a kiss. I talked with her friend in the beginning and negged her a bit. This had a huge impact in her attraction towards me.

Bad stuff: Nothing really but I need more teasing material.

Things to do differently: -

FR: First mixed sets

FR 8.10.2008

Set 48 – 3 set (mixed): My first mixed set happened by mistake. I opened 2 girls and during my opener a guy came. I’ve spoken with the whole group, got into A2 (only A2) and took the numbers of all the people. Later I smsed the HB7 and she said the guy was her boyfriend. I won’t pursue this since I’m not that interested in her. I deleted their numbers.

Set 49 – 4 set (mixed): I opened them in the dorms. The guy was shitting with me and I responded on the same tonality so we got along fine. I couldn’t do my A2 that well because he was amogging and my target left in the dorms while I was doing this. Still it was a nice experience.

Day 4 with PU ID 25: Another fast-paced date. She was meeting a (girl) friend with which she wanted to go home (after a full day). She doesn’t like games but I had some good kino. She was asking while I was holding hands like we were together (on a “I wanna know more” tone) and I was playful. I’ll have to find a way to show authority on her world. She’s also smsing me a lot and always says that she wants to meet me (I think I found some shit tests there ).

Clubbing night: I went with some friends in a club. Another group joined and I met 2 girls. I played with them (I was very alpha: signaled one to come near me, she came; after I got bored with her I asked the other one and they switched). They liked me but I left as I was going to work the next day.

Good points:

• opened mixed sets
• good friendly amogging

Bad points:

• not displaying authority over PU ID 25
• not going into A3 in a mixed set

Sticking points: NONE

FR: Almost getting into LJBF … BE SEXUAL, BE ALPHA

FR 7.10.2008

Phone game – PU ID 17: She bailed my meeting for the night because she’s afraid of going solo (had some problems the night before when some guys followed her). I rescheduled for Sunday. I also introduced my (real) story where I protected some girls in a club from drunk guys.

Day 2 with PU ID 22: The girl I rated as HB6 that day was actually a HB8. Woow for the difference. She looks gorgeous and has a great body. She also dresses well, is very communicative and has a great personality. I discovered she likes bad boys which was a statement that leads to LJBF. I’ll try to act on the next date.

Day 3 – PU ID 25: She made other plans (again). It seems I didn’t learn my lesson the first time. This is the kind of girl that makes plans so I can’t just call her 1 hour before I want to go somewhere. She’s going with her friends and a guy who likes her. She made a jealousy plot and I fell through it. I said I can go too, it’ll be more interesting with 2 guys that like her, and I’ll win of course. She didn’t want that (but I appeared more alpha that way). I told her we will meet after and even though we had some sms chat she called 3 hours later (when I slept).

Set 47 – 3set HB9 HB6 UG4: I opened them in the bathroom (at the sinks). I spoke with HB6 (PU ID 28) while negging HB9 (did a great job by the way) but HB9 finished what she was doing and left before I finished a story in A2. I calibrated HB6 very well, took her number even though she told me she had a boyfriend with a trick I developed for these situations. She told me she is in a 2 year relationship so I won’t call her unless for a party where she can bring the HB9 (they are in the same year btw).

I opened 2 other girls but they were in a (real) hurry so I ejected after. The move was ok.

Good points:

• calibration
• finally a good opening for a 3 set (neg the SHB, talk to the group)
• good communication skills in dates

Bad points:

• I still get demoralized if I don’t get what I want, I should stay cool and learn from my mistakes

Sticking points:

• be more sexual
• lack of Day 2 directions (I think I got pretty dependent on the game)

FR: Always make acquaintance with a girl’s friends

FR 6.10.2008

Set 45 HB8: This girl (PU ID 26) works as a promoter and organizes parties. She seems cool enough, sceptic and all the conversation with her was on the stairs of a dorm. She was rushing down, I wanted to go up. I got her id there (not a number) but it wasn’t the perfect place for comfort. 

Set 46 HB7: She (PU ID 27) has the perfect hair: natural curly brunette but she’s petite (very slim body). We’ve got a vibe going and I spent 40 minutes with her doing a lot of things. She told me she had a boyfriend (for about a week) which I reframed with “a week? haha, I don’t care” and it’s established: she’ll cook for me and we’ll go dancing together. She’s also a mountain girl, very talkative and a lot of fun.

Missed an opportunity with a HB9 that passed near me … I should’ve opened her.

Day 2 – PU ID 25: She excused herself because her friends wanted to go to a movie (I didn’t feel like it) but we met briefly. I made the biggest mistake I could possibly do: she was talking to me, separately from her friends and even though I asked to be introduced, I didn’t vibe with them (preferred gaming the girl).

Phone game – PU ID 17: We talked from 20 minutes (phone bill’s getting higher, I hope these are taken from the 7 hours <to sex> rule ). She kept telling me about some bad experiences she had with boys in general and I DID NOT RELATE. When I meet this girl I’ll have to insist upon the “protector of loved ones” part because she’s really afraid (she’s a dancer and all the guys try to pick her up).

Good points:

• calibration works great (once I find out the girl doesn’t do parties I calm my rhythm and tell her relevant stories)
• good eye contact (chicks really dig it)

Bad points:

• hope it’s a solo mistake (I even realized it in field) but ALWAYS talk with the girl’s friends

Sticking points:

• missing 9s and 10s because I see them just passing me (1 second to approach)

FR: If you can’t date a girl NOW, SARGE ONE!!!

FR 5.10.2008

My new motto is never get bored. If I can’t get a girl somewhere on a Monday night, I should go and sarge one. It’s way better than staying at home

Set 41 HB7 && HB5: 2 girls I opened on the street, they went left and as I already told them I was going to the mall, I went right. I should’ve slowed down and waited for them to choose a direction OR lie that I’m going to a friend first OR get direct and take their number.

Set 42 HB8: I lost her due to the 1 second rule. I saw her as she was walking past me, I turned back and as I was approaching her she met with a friend and changed directions again. I couldn’t just follow them around so I bailed out. She was very cute.

Set 43 HB9: Very attractive body, she was returning from the mini market to her dorm. I entered the dorm but she was so fast I would’ve looked needy if I ran after her.

Set 44 – HB7: I got her number (PU ID 25) in the bus (dem’ I rock at number closing in the bus). The interaction went great, I did a bit of amogging on a stranger that was trying to get in the discussion. Got the girl. She phoned to say thanks for helping her with the luggage.

At the mall I’ve met my Set 40 again. I did a lot of A2, some A3 and some comfort. Found out she was very religious and didn’t want to give me her number (I should’ve asked for the mess this time as I already had a NO on the number). I’m not interested in this girl anymore… I prefer to party in this age

Good points:

• I rock at opening (day game)
• I rock at transitioning (day game)
• I rock at A2 (day game)

Bad points:

• again, I’m being unprepared when they choose a direction

Sticking points:

• If you risk loosing the set, GET DIRECT