FR: Getting over the “I have a boyfriend” problem

FR 24.09.2008

A lot of girls tell me they have a boyfriend after they give me their number. I never get to meet them.

Set 15 – HB8.5: I changed my direction for her. My opener worked flawlessly, she (PU ID 6) goes to two universities (second year in both of them) and she’s the shy one. I told her that I wanted to go to the zoo, her roommate was there so I asked for her number and planed a trip to the zoo for the weekend. I’ve got good calibration: she hesitated when I asked for her number so I told her: “then don’t give it to me”, I’ve seen she was getting ready to leave so I continued “I’ll take it instead”. Worked perfectly. I called her during the evening and she told me she had a boyfriend. The thing is I know she regretted that… but how can I solve the problem?

Day 2 with PU ID 3: I went to the tan saloon again (she said she didn’t have time for a meeting: school + work combo) and we’ve chatted a bit. After we were holding hands (again) she told me she had a boyfriend and doesn’t want to cheat on him. I told her that I don’t wait for girls and I won’t speak to her again (I denied her the friend option), if she wants to meet with me she’ll sms me this month or I’ll delete her number. She was amazed and some clients came into the room. After they left I put her on the wall and we made out. I’ll have to decide if I should wait for her message, call her or go there again.

Good points:

• good calibration, I’m getting better at this
• good kino with girls, it’s becoming natural for me to touch girls when I talk

Bad points:

• I’m more of a cute boy that talks about adrenaline … I should be more alpha
• I need to speak slowly
• I need more material (for Day 2s and for diversity)

Sticking points:

• I need more connection material
• I’m gaming way too many girls with boyfriends (for all miniPUs out there, this is not a shit test). I’ll have to develop my boyfriend destroyer routines

FR: 11° C – sarging time

FR 17.09.2008

I haven’t sarged yesterday so today I’m gonna finish a planned tactic (multi threading on opening and body rocking). So here are the sets:

Set 3 – HB6: Seen a well dressed girl but once I got closer she had a medium face. I love girls that have an angel face so I wasn’t attracted (-2). She never went to the mountains (but wants to), never been to the sea. I couldn’t get into A3 (I had way too few questions and info from her to start qualifying). … could’ve taken her number but her bus came and I didn’t want to take the ride.

Set 4 – HB7.5: I went to a tan salon where one of my friends works. She wasn’t there but the other girl was cute (PU ID 3). I started with some storytelling, found out that she loves tigers, mauve and motorbikes and she didn’t quite travel (Austria and some other 2 countries). She is very feely (entered a trance when I told her to IMAGINE something). Note that this is the second girl that works at a tan salon and enters quickly in a trance. She got attracted, I qualified her, had a lil’ work romance <spinning her and changing rooms with her> but when I tried to kiss her into comfort she didn’t open her mouth. WTH?!?!? I continued with the material and she was CLEARLY attracted (I could touch her belly, we held hands, she kissed my cheeks whenever I wanted too but no tongue).

Good points:

• I worked HB 7.5 nicely
• I’m good at opening (I hadn’t been rejected ONCE during daytime … which was my exact target)

Bad points:

• when the girl is waiting for the buss, don’t tell stories … fast-game her, she’s leaving soon!
• didn’t kino from the first story (my thoughts was that it was social impolite to go near her when I was at a distance … maybe try to open near the target, not 2 meters apart)

Sticking points: NONE