FR: sarging retro club

FR 18.09.2008

I planned to stay in home but a friend of mine called to invite me to a club. He said he had a table and some girls so … there I go! I arrive, all in the mood … they don’t have anything except 1 new girl (the other chicks bailed on them hehe). So there I open:

Set 5 HB9: I went into a set where I knew a girl before (didn’t know her name though) and told my opener. Only that girl heard me and she answered that she had no idea. I think that by her gestures she expressed the idea to the group that she’s saying NO to me because when I asked the other girls the same question they thought I didn’t know the first girl and I was a stranger in the group (that’s very bad game). My target asked me if I was gay and while I was showing her the “think of a number” game she told me we’ll speak another time.

Set 6 HB9.5: Very cute girl (PU ID 4) I knew from the university with her room mate. We talked a lot but her room mate wasn’t interested in the chat (even though I tried to speak to both of them). Her room mate danced, got bored and left. After 15 minutes in isolation, the cute one went to her friend to dance and I left with a messenger id.

Set 7 HB8.5: The girl that came with us. I run some game on her and she sent IOIs but soon started going to meet other friends (practically she got bored).

Good points:

• got social proof from my friends (he has a lot of girls, always takes 2 numbers in a club) and they saw me with Set 6
• I sort of timebridged in Set 6 but the girl was occupied … so I spoke about a later adventure (which I’ll call her about later)

Bad points:

• I don’t recover from failure (couldn’t spin Set 7 so I don’t continue the game at the same level)
• In Set 5 I didn’t even run game. I should’ve talked to the girl I knew something about, enough that she introduces me to her friends. Instead I acted as a looser.
• In Set 6 I should’ve calibrated more … what did her room mate want? To dance with someone? A very interesting story?
• Set 7 was very easy. I didn’t know where I was, if the girl answered because she was polite or because she liked me. Should’ve pushed more.
• didn’t do palm reading! it always worked for me

Sticking points: running out of material (with some girls I can play 3 hours and they’re not bored, with others in 10 minutes I run out of things to say except stories). I feel they need other things (I need to improve my calibration).