FR: Not enough time for sarging

FR 28.10.2008

 

Today I sarged 2 girls the second time. They were some (kind of) failures from way back and they remembered me. I kept my cool but didn’t progress.

Set 86 – HB6 (PUD ID 49): I love the way she was dressed so I opened her even though she appeared a hard set (went the other direction in a hurry). 

Good stuff: Very good body rocking, opened logistically hard set.

Bad stuff: No comfort.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I need a small comfort routine for day game.

Day 2 with PU ID 46: Went perfect. Got my kiss close.

Good stuff: Good eye contact and body language. Successfully tried the girlfriend test and the evolution phase shift routine.

Bad stuff: I got the kiss the third time. Should have played with her neck more and get it the first.

Things to do differently: I need a plan for Day 2s so we have more things to do, not just a drink. I should concentrate more on quality meetings instead on quantity meetings.

Phone game with PU ID 43: Got her for a meeting tomorrow (too bad I have another meeting AND an appointment at a doctor … all that … AFTER I finish work). I’m hoping for a flake here.

Good stuff: Great conversation. Went from extreme sports directly to book reading.

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

 

FR: Good tips, day 2 kiss close and sex talk

FR 22.10.2008

Set 83 – HB6 (PUD ID 46) + 3 girls: I give a HB6 here because she is small but she is very cute. I know her from dance classes. I used the trust test (palm squeeze) to check if she was ready to receive my number. We left together (me and her friends) and I got her number (but didn’t do any comfort). I won’t call her until after the next dancing session.

Good stuff: I finally implemented the trust test.

Bad stuff: No comfort (due to the group being there).

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Play a game (which will make me different from the other guys).

 

Phone game with PU ID 43: I was at dance classes when I phoned her (which affected my game a bit). She flaked and she said maybe we aren’t right for each other. I think she’s the lonely type and I should decelerate and go into comfort.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: Didn’t build enough comfort before inviting her. I must practice calling girls just to build comfort.

Things to do differently: I must do more C1.

 

Found out PU ID 25 has a boyfriend, she told me on the phone but I used a BF destroyer and got the idea in her head that we should meet. I’ll call her later (when she dumped him or she is bored, to check things out. A lot of girls have boyfriends and still give me their number and when I phone them … they realize they did the wrong thing and we don’t meet.

 

Set 84 – HB8 (PUD ID 47) – 2 set: We had lots of things in common right from the start. She knew the pinky swear, we were hi5ing our way to comfort until my bus arrived. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend (but I still got her number).

Good stuff: Hugging and real connection. Only if I could relate to any set like that. Hooked the set so good that even her friend was happy that we had those similarities.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

 

TIP: How to meet a busy/flakey girl

Phone her and tell her you are at some friends near the place she lives, you’ll be leaving in an hour and you’d like to have a drink with her. If she refuses you don’t loose points (as you were just in the neighborhood). If she accepts you have an hour to arrive there. She’s also more likely to accept as she doesn’t have to go too far, she knows the place (which makes her feel secure) and you won’t look needy (you don’t go after her, you were just near by).

 

Day 2 with PU ID 32:  I used the tip above to Day 2 this girl. She came with a friend and we started talking. They were really chatty and we soon arrived to sex talk. The girls were sexually open, they had loads of experiences and I had a fun time. I kiss closed.

Good stuff: Hugging and my hand hold kino test that showed she was ready for a kiss. I talked with her friend in the beginning and negged her a bit. This had a huge impact in her attraction towards me.

Bad stuff: Nothing really but I need more teasing material.

Things to do differently: -

FR: Good game for clubs

FR 16.10.2008

Set 72 – HB7 (PU ID 43): She’s a teacher at a school near the place I work. I also have the numbers of two of her students (evil me!). She told me a lot about herself (so my palm reading will be a blast in the near future) and she didn’t want to give me her number (the first time). After more rapport she gave it.

Phone game with PU ID 32: I started the conversation with some predefined threads but it quickly got into rapport. If I like the person (and have similarities) I can quickly develop rapport. I know she won’t flake on me now.

Phone game with PU ID 31: Role playing rocks! We got talking about some baby toys I’ll buy for her and how she’ll wear them. We established a meeting for today (but it’s still on maybe which is great as I need some sleep).

I’ve met 2 girls in a bar, one of which I like but I lost the set even though I said an interesting story (I told it WAY TOO FAST).

TIP – Anti AA club game: The game I played destroyed any AA me and my wing could have. Basically we took turns in pointing to sets and the other one had to enter. If you miss a set you buy the other person a drink. Another derivation: if you miss a set your friend gives you the next opener.

I opened multiple sets, some of them were dancing (a bad move probably but we played a game). One of the girls rejected me directly, another listened to my story then said she wanted to dance, another’s friend came to save her. The problem was mainly on the dance floor because girls there wanted to party and not meet guys. Conclusion: don’t open on the dance floor except when they don’t dance, have low energy and/or can hear me.

Set 73 – 2 set (PU ID 44): I opened one of them indirectly and got lots of IOIs. I played the game well and was soon in comfort. She loves me and hugged me all day. After the night I sent her an sms to which she replied in the morning. She can’t wait to see me.

The game I played in the club made me ignore any AA me and my wing could have. Basically we took turns in pointing to sets and the other one had to enter. If you miss a set you buy the other person a drink. Another derivation: if you miss a set your friend gives you the next opener.

 

Good points:

• anti AA game
• talking to the teacher after she refused me and still taking the number
• pretty much no AA during club game

Bad points:

• bad club game
• doing bad logistics (opening dancing sets without preselection, without higher energy, without them hearing me)

Sticking points:

• my wing noticed it too: SPEAKING TOO FAST 
• BAD CLUB GAME (I’ll implement some tricks I found on the net)