FR: I need to get rid of some neediness

FR 20.10.2008

Set 78 – HB8 + HB6: Opened them on the road to the university. I got the girl’s phone number (PU ID 45) even though I didn’t do A3 or C1 (I need to learn A3).

Good stuff: A number close as usual. I also used a situational (funny) opener.

Bad stuff: No A3, no open threads when we departed. I should’ve hinted at my palm reading routine.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I’m not using my general A3 questions, which is plain stupid! I should’ve qualified her.

 

Set 79 – HB6: Opened her at dance classes. I looked way too interested (I danced with her twice). After hours I opened her friends with a question and went with them to the dorms. I looked extremely needy when after she didn’t give me her number I followed her 10 more steps to her dorm without any reason whatsoever (I’m not used to not getting numbers).

Good stuff: Good opener, made her laugh.

Bad stuff: No A3, no open threads when we departed. I should’ve hinted at my palm reading routine.

Where I lost the set: I looked needy by following them. Should’ve ejected when I arrived to my dorm.

Things to do differently: Should’ve stayed low for the day and thrown a DHV spike another day, and another. Then, qualify her and get number. Don’t call the next day and ignore her at dance classes.

 

Phone game with PU ID 45: I repeated myself telling I was scared of meeting her (some sick role playing scenario I never developed). I also couldn’t EV and I didn’t use any structure.

FR: First lay using the game

FR 17.10.2008

I had a lot of FBs before but this is my first LR using game techniques (anti LMR, hot/cold, reframing – she’s hitting on you, confidence: we’ll have sex tonight).

Set 74 – HB7: Lost her on the street. I entered A2 with a story but I couldn’t go in A3 as she arrived at the university (7 min). I asked for her number, didn’t work the first time, another story and 3 minutes after she still didn’t give it. She was in a hurry and left. If I had more time I’m pretty sure I could’ve taken her number (or at least find out she had a BF).

LR – PU ID 44: First lay report due to the game. I had my Day 2 with the girl from the club. We started in a park (2 glasses, champagne, hugs and kisses) and then we went to my room. We watched one of the movies I mixed and I couldn’t escalate. She wanted to talk and she kept insisting we won’t make sex. I played hot/cold, give/take, a lot of other techniques and I found out more about her (she’s into BL, personality, she reads a lot and she’s pretty quiet). I didn’t play games and we mostly talked about personalities. Since I thought we wouldn’t make sex I talked about approaching girls, telling stories and things like that. She told me she was ok with me being with other women and wanted a drink. I knew it was on: I put Barry White, we kissed and we made out. She loved it . After happy hour she told me she loved the way I was looking at her and my confidence. I got after lay feedback: she wanted sex after I played with her breasts and she was attracted when I hugged her in the club. I MUST HUG MORE!!!

 

Set 75 – HB7: I took her id (PU ID 45) at 7 AM in the morning, after I walked PU ID 44 out of my dorm. It was a quick take … I was feeling … satisfied. I told her about palm reading so she’ll remember me by something unique.

 

Good points:

• the anti LMR techniques ROCKED
• I needed to be direct in set 74 (and should’ve realized that)
• HUGGING rocks in any environment, I should hug on departure
• preselection (telling PU ID 44 about some girls) did the job

 

Bad points:

• lack of ALWAYS ON mentality

 

Sticking points: NONE