FR: LMR again

FR 14.11.2008

Day 6 with PU ID 46: (8 hours so far). Still in the LMR zone. I got her topless but I couldn’t get my hand in her pants. Tried freezing (she started dressing), she on top, rubbing through her pants, got her rubbing my penis but that’s all there was. Next time we’ll probably have sex.

Good stuff: Progressed. I acted alpha. 

Bad stuff: Couldn’t fight LMR. I used a lot of tricks but it didn’t work. Maybe due to the 7 hour rule.

Things to do differently: -

 

Phone game with PU ID 48: I went into good comfort with her and she flaked (didn’t answer her phone). I don’t know why … probably something else in her life.

FR: Fighting LMR

FR 3.112008

My month of daily pickup is finished. This month I’m into Day 2s. I’ll open sets on the street but mainly for experiments.

Set 99 – 2 set: Opened them on the street, directly. The girl gave me puppy eyes but her friend was trying to save her. I talked with them but my style (telling stories) is not that congruent with direct game.

Good stuff: Opened directly. Got A1, some A2.

Bad stuff: I didn’t get into A3 as they weren’t the interesting type.

Where I lost the set: She didn’t want to give me her number (or her id) even though she tried to stay while her girl friend dragged her away. I think she was waiting for something from me.

Things to do differently: I need some good A3 material.

Phone game with PU ID 48: Dinner and a movie reframe: she brings the food from her work place, I bring the movies.

Good stuff: Logistics: I told her I will be in the neighbourhood when she finishes (so why shouldn’t she meet me?).   

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

 

Day 5 with PU ID 46: Got her into my bed but LMR won.

Good stuff: Good excuse to get her into your room: the tip bellow.  

Bad stuff: Couldn’t fight LMR. I used a lot of tricks but it didn’t work.

Things to do differently: GET THE HEAT ON. CLOSE ALL THE WINDOWS, MAKE HER SWEAT AND MAKE HER FEEL THE NEED TO STRIP.

 

 

TIP: Get her into your room - Send an sms with a plan: dress sporty, we’re going somewhere special. Meet me at <near your place>. Arrive there dressed from work and tell her you didn’t have time to change. The plan failed as the place you intended to go was closed. Now you have a good excuse to go with her to your apartment and change.

FR: Missing C&F, got a good friend and preparing for a future lay report

FR 2.112008

Day 4 with PU ID 46: Got into erotic touches in a public bar (on a private couch). I smsed her and tonight we’ll get into my drinking in the park routine.

Good stuff: Having a lot of things to say.

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

Day 3 with PU ID 47: I’m in clear LJBF so we met at a Chinese restaurant. It is amazing how many commonalities we share so I’m glad it’s LJBF and not a 1 month relationship. She shared with me a lot of personal stuff and she’ll make a nice pivot.

Good stuff: Commonalities, originality.

Bad stuff: LJBF!!!

Things to do differently: She said we’ve got into LJBF because we have so many things in common and that isn’t challenging (we were like brothers). It’s my bad boy attitude that’s missing here. I’ll learn C&F next.

 

FR: another good game but I must use better seeding

FR 30.10.2008

Set 91 – HB6: Set opened on the street. The girl was way too quiet and a good girl for my taste. I loved the way she was dressed but I couldn’t find anything interesting at her so I didn’t take her number.

Good stuff: Good logistics (I synched with her as we were going in the same direction).

Bad stuff: I couldn’t EV or use proper A3 material.

Where I lost the set: We went in different directions

Things to do differently: Better A3.

 

Day 3 with PU ID 46: We established a meeting in the club so I went there first. I’ve met some friends and PU ID 19 there so when my girl came with her friends I was walking another girl in the club (preselection point hit!). After that we got together, I (really) played hard to get and escalated until I was with my leg between her legs. I couldn’t escalate further (couldn’t bounce due to her friends and her roommate was watching us) and, as I had to go to work the next day, I left.

Good stuff: Good eye contact, body language and SEXUAL ESCALATION.

Bad stuff: I was hesitant in a few occasions and I didn’t start escalation when I met her.

Things to do differently: A bounce would’ve been possible if I could’ve staid longer.

 

Set 92 – HB7 (PU ID 51): I opened her when I was returning from the club. It was one of my best sets, she was amazed at my personality and the things I told her. I even changed location to a bench for a palm read which I never did (and will be used as part of a reason for a Day 2).

Good stuff: Good game (A1-C2).

Bad stuff: Didn’t have enough A3 material.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Use more A3 and give SOIs based on that. Also have a short comfort story. Also I forgot to seed.

 

FR: Not enough time for sarging

FR 28.10.2008

 

Today I sarged 2 girls the second time. They were some (kind of) failures from way back and they remembered me. I kept my cool but didn’t progress.

Set 86 – HB6 (PUD ID 49): I love the way she was dressed so I opened her even though she appeared a hard set (went the other direction in a hurry). 

Good stuff: Very good body rocking, opened logistically hard set.

Bad stuff: No comfort.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I need a small comfort routine for day game.

Day 2 with PU ID 46: Went perfect. Got my kiss close.

Good stuff: Good eye contact and body language. Successfully tried the girlfriend test and the evolution phase shift routine.

Bad stuff: I got the kiss the third time. Should have played with her neck more and get it the first.

Things to do differently: I need a plan for Day 2s so we have more things to do, not just a drink. I should concentrate more on quality meetings instead on quantity meetings.

Phone game with PU ID 43: Got her for a meeting tomorrow (too bad I have another meeting AND an appointment at a doctor … all that … AFTER I finish work). I’m hoping for a flake here.

Good stuff: Great conversation. Went from extreme sports directly to book reading.

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

 

FR: Good tips, day 2 kiss close and sex talk

FR 22.10.2008

Set 83 – HB6 (PUD ID 46) + 3 girls: I give a HB6 here because she is small but she is very cute. I know her from dance classes. I used the trust test (palm squeeze) to check if she was ready to receive my number. We left together (me and her friends) and I got her number (but didn’t do any comfort). I won’t call her until after the next dancing session.

Good stuff: I finally implemented the trust test.

Bad stuff: No comfort (due to the group being there).

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Play a game (which will make me different from the other guys).

 

Phone game with PU ID 43: I was at dance classes when I phoned her (which affected my game a bit). She flaked and she said maybe we aren’t right for each other. I think she’s the lonely type and I should decelerate and go into comfort.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: Didn’t build enough comfort before inviting her. I must practice calling girls just to build comfort.

Things to do differently: I must do more C1.

 

Found out PU ID 25 has a boyfriend, she told me on the phone but I used a BF destroyer and got the idea in her head that we should meet. I’ll call her later (when she dumped him or she is bored, to check things out. A lot of girls have boyfriends and still give me their number and when I phone them … they realize they did the wrong thing and we don’t meet.

 

Set 84 – HB8 (PUD ID 47) – 2 set: We had lots of things in common right from the start. She knew the pinky swear, we were hi5ing our way to comfort until my bus arrived. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend (but I still got her number).

Good stuff: Hugging and real connection. Only if I could relate to any set like that. Hooked the set so good that even her friend was happy that we had those similarities.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

 

TIP: How to meet a busy/flakey girl

Phone her and tell her you are at some friends near the place she lives, you’ll be leaving in an hour and you’d like to have a drink with her. If she refuses you don’t loose points (as you were just in the neighborhood). If she accepts you have an hour to arrive there. She’s also more likely to accept as she doesn’t have to go too far, she knows the place (which makes her feel secure) and you won’t look needy (you don’t go after her, you were just near by).

 

Day 2 with PU ID 32:  I used the tip above to Day 2 this girl. She came with a friend and we started talking. They were really chatty and we soon arrived to sex talk. The girls were sexually open, they had loads of experiences and I had a fun time. I kiss closed.

Good stuff: Hugging and my hand hold kino test that showed she was ready for a kiss. I talked with her friend in the beginning and negged her a bit. This had a huge impact in her attraction towards me.

Bad stuff: Nothing really but I need more teasing material.

Things to do differently: -