FR: Preselection hits every time

FR 6.11.2008

Set 101 – HB6: Opened her in the tram station. I was non needy and I had a very good conversation with her but she wasn’t my type. I didn’t took her number and we’ll probably meet at dance classes (she wanted to come). I also talked her into waiting with me for another tram.

Good stuff: Good, relaxed game. She waited for another tram with me.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I should try to be more aggressive (just for fun).

 

Clubbing with PU ID 47 and 5 other girls: I got preselection as usual (one point for me here, it seems that I always know people in clubs now. Went with them in 3 clubs, I taught them salsa dancing, they taught me serbian folk dancing and we had a great time. I also used my hat as a prop on some girls while I talked to the boys, opened a bunch of other girls but I wasn’t interested in any. I’m still testing my night game and slowly I’ll get better there too. (Girls love props by the way).

Good stuff: I always hit the preselection switch. I also dressed very well and all the girls that I brought there were into me. I also got a number without gaming (I knew from the IOIs that I could): PU ID 55. She’s an 8 and she dresses well.

Bad stuff: Should’ve gamed some girls there.

Things to do differently: Isolation on PU ID 55.

 

 

FR: Pre selection rocks

FR 4.112008

Day 2 with PU ID 51 (came with PU ID 47 and a friend of hers): I went with them to a club where I’ve met other girls so I got a lot of social proof. Danced with them, made some cool pictures but I couldn’t game her as they were feeling the music (which was great because we had a lot of fun).

Good stuff: A lot of preselection, this is the way to go to a club.

Bad stuff: Not hitting on any of them (which could be a good thing as I can hit on both of them separately).

Things to do differently: Have a kiss close before going to a club so you can sexual escalate there.

FR: Missing C&F, got a good friend and preparing for a future lay report

FR 2.112008

Day 4 with PU ID 46: Got into erotic touches in a public bar (on a private couch). I smsed her and tonight we’ll get into my drinking in the park routine.

Good stuff: Having a lot of things to say.

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

Day 3 with PU ID 47: I’m in clear LJBF so we met at a Chinese restaurant. It is amazing how many commonalities we share so I’m glad it’s LJBF and not a 1 month relationship. She shared with me a lot of personal stuff and she’ll make a nice pivot.

Good stuff: Commonalities, originality.

Bad stuff: LJBF!!!

Things to do differently: She said we’ve got into LJBF because we have so many things in common and that isn’t challenging (we were like brothers). It’s my bad boy attitude that’s missing here. I’ll learn C&F next.

 

FR: LJBFed again

FR 27.10.2008

Set 85 – HB8 (PUD ID 48): She went past me in a hurry but she was extremely cute so I opened. My opener worked flawlessly and we were in A2 in no time. Everything went well and I got the number.

Good stuff: Opened girl that walked in the opposite direction in a hurry with her ipod on. It seems these kind of sets are (sometimes) openable.

Bad stuff: No comfort (girl was in a hurry).

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: I need a small comfort routine for day game.

 

Day 2 with PU ID 47: We talked a lot and I really mean a lot. There’s a connection here … and we played some games … and I got a lot of IOIs … I was even touching her on her legs but then she snapped out and wanted space. Repeated this with the same result. Tried to kiss her but she didn’t want to, changed subject with alphaness. In the end she told me we should be friends because it’s too much and we have so many things in common … and there are some things (her words). I don’t know how this will turn out.

Good stuff: A really good interaction. Good kino progression. If I wouldn’t had kissed her she would’ve LJBFed me from the start.

Bad stuff: Nothing really.

Things to do differently: I DON’T KNOW! I have some ideas but no arguments against/versus them in this situation. I need to steer the love feeling in this girl. I’ll probably use preselection (meet with other women).

 

 

 

FR: Good tips, day 2 kiss close and sex talk

FR 22.10.2008

Set 83 – HB6 (PUD ID 46) + 3 girls: I give a HB6 here because she is small but she is very cute. I know her from dance classes. I used the trust test (palm squeeze) to check if she was ready to receive my number. We left together (me and her friends) and I got her number (but didn’t do any comfort). I won’t call her until after the next dancing session.

Good stuff: I finally implemented the trust test.

Bad stuff: No comfort (due to the group being there).

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: Play a game (which will make me different from the other guys).

 

Phone game with PU ID 43: I was at dance classes when I phoned her (which affected my game a bit). She flaked and she said maybe we aren’t right for each other. I think she’s the lonely type and I should decelerate and go into comfort.

Good stuff: -

Bad stuff: Didn’t build enough comfort before inviting her. I must practice calling girls just to build comfort.

Things to do differently: I must do more C1.

 

Found out PU ID 25 has a boyfriend, she told me on the phone but I used a BF destroyer and got the idea in her head that we should meet. I’ll call her later (when she dumped him or she is bored, to check things out. A lot of girls have boyfriends and still give me their number and when I phone them … they realize they did the wrong thing and we don’t meet.

 

Set 84 – HB8 (PUD ID 47) – 2 set: We had lots of things in common right from the start. She knew the pinky swear, we were hi5ing our way to comfort until my bus arrived. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend (but I still got her number).

Good stuff: Hugging and real connection. Only if I could relate to any set like that. Hooked the set so good that even her friend was happy that we had those similarities.

Bad stuff: -

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: -

 

TIP: How to meet a busy/flakey girl

Phone her and tell her you are at some friends near the place she lives, you’ll be leaving in an hour and you’d like to have a drink with her. If she refuses you don’t loose points (as you were just in the neighborhood). If she accepts you have an hour to arrive there. She’s also more likely to accept as she doesn’t have to go too far, she knows the place (which makes her feel secure) and you won’t look needy (you don’t go after her, you were just near by).

 

Day 2 with PU ID 32:  I used the tip above to Day 2 this girl. She came with a friend and we started talking. They were really chatty and we soon arrived to sex talk. The girls were sexually open, they had loads of experiences and I had a fun time. I kiss closed.

Good stuff: Hugging and my hand hold kino test that showed she was ready for a kiss. I talked with her friend in the beginning and negged her a bit. This had a huge impact in her attraction towards me.

Bad stuff: Nothing really but I need more teasing material.

Things to do differently: -