PGR: A new sticking point found

I did some bad phone game on PU ID 5. Here are the details:

• I kept repeating that she is interesting and that’s why I want to meet her (I should make a list of qualities I can qualify a woman with without being too direct)
• She kept repeating that she won’t meet with me because she’s best friend with my ex (my ex being a girl I dated like 4 days). I should’ve reframed into something funny or adventurous.
• I need a phone game plan that qualifies and is interesting

FR: Sarging in a loud club

FR 19.09.2008

Set 8 HB9: I opened her on the way to work but in the middle of my opener she had to take left. I was a bit in front of her and it was clear I wasn’t going in the same direction. So we split up. I SHOULD HAVE GONE DIRECT!

Some (girl) friends of mine invited me to a club. I’ve met some friends and here I go:

Set 9 HB9Blonde: I opened her in the disco, made acquaintance with her friends and negged her a bit. She wasn’t that attentive so I switched to her HB8.5 friend. She seemed a little bit interested but somehow it didn’t work. I ejected during A2 with the intention of going later. After a while I opened them again and when my I presented my wing the HB9Blonde turned over.

Set 10 HB8.5 Blonde: A friend of some friends (PU ID 5). I ran A2 on her, did a lot of kino and while I was talking with some friends she left. When she returned later I did some A3 but she kept telling me she was a good friend of my ex. I ignored that, isolated her and took her number. In the isolation she met her friends and I had some miscalibrations. I also left her a ring of mine (“are you a thief?” routine) and when I arrived I felt confident and asked my ex if it was ok if we went out. That made the blonde nervous in a bad way and she left to her friends. I sent her an SMS and she responded just about now (one hour after). She seems interested.

Good points:

• I’ve met some new people and ran social circle game (getting my friends acquainted with each other) even if it didn’t go that well (they split into groups soon after). I still appeared to every group that I had many many friends.

Bad points:

• Set 8 – should’ve gone direct (always get the number if you like the girl)
• Set 9 – bad game: should’ve made them comfortable with me … travel stories don’t work so well in a loud club -> I need to get short/funny ones
• Set 10 – bad social game: telling my ex in front of the girl that I liked her and we’ll date
• Set 10 – I should’ve been more masculine (I told her that she wanted to kiss me and she got into defensive, she also kept telling about her relationship with my ex which actually meant that she wanted me to give an excuse)

Sticking points:

• I am needy!!! I need a state of mind in which I really don’t care. I mean I don’t care if I get rejected by girl X but I get some bad emotions when I’m doing mistakes.
• I need more material in my game (eventually changing some routines) but before that, I want to learn all the phases.