FR: Kiss close on day 2, was that my SP?

FR 11.11.2008

Day 2 with PU ID 60 (another HB9): We vibed a lot and I did Style’s evolution phase shift routine. I know when it works now. She paid for the drinks (the third girl in 1 week) and she’ll call me from another country (where she’s going this weekend).

Good stuff: Everything in the interaction. I hinted on future adventures and had 2 with her. I also hinted on romance, sexuality and playfulness. I think my Day 2 should consist in hints on my personality and questions towards hers. 

Bad stuff: -

Things to do differently: -

 

What did this change from PU ID 56 (the girl I couldn’t kiss close on the second date):

• I was very playful and teasing at the party
• I got preselection there (girls enjoyed me)
• I didn’t go deep into comfort but rather stick to the fun part
• On my Day 2 I hinted on an interesting personality and qualified her a lot

FR: Cocky funny brings you IOIs

FR 9.11.2008

Set 110 – HB8 (PU ID 59): My mum helped me here. For real! She told me to take her number as we were colleagues at kindergarten . I was very alpha in asking her if she goes out, guessing where she goes and then nonchalantly giving her my phone and telling her we’ll go sometime. All of this in front of her mum.

 

Day 2 with PU ID 56 (my HB9): She’s very interesting has a lot of things going in her life and my nickname for her makes her laugh. I kino her a lot and we have a good interaction but she isn’t ready for a kiss close (WTF? I don’t want to LJBF every interesting girl I meet). I’m considering this kino but no kiss a sticking point from now on. She paid for the drinks (she’s the second girl in two days, damn’ I’m good ).

 

Set 111 – HB9 (PU ID 60): I gamed her at PU ID 15’s party. I was preselected there (the girls loved me, the boys wanted more games) and I was telling PU ID 15 how my target will react and when she’ll give me her number. I’m a BL guru in her mind. My target was very responsive and I teased her a lot. It seemed that after every comment I got an IOI. I didn’t isolate her though and didn’t want to risk a kiss rejection in front of my friends.

Good stuff: Negged her, teased her and played with her. It was a lot of fun.

Bad stuff: I forgot about seeding and I couldn’t get some comfort topics in the discussion.

Where I lost the set: -

Things to do differently: More comfort and rapport (maybe stories from childhood). Seeding early in the discussion.