Same day lay

It all started so stereotypically …

Last week I opened a girl on the street: cute, lost look, just after talking to the phone with someone. I was practicing my sexual presence at that time and I was dressed bad boy style. I noticed that from the first few minutes there was a lot of attraction going on so I took her hand and spinned her. She loved it and just as she was coming out of the spin I caught her head and kissed her. She responded and we hit it off. I told her we’re going to play with the frisbee in the park and then I took her by the hand and off we went. On the road to my place (to take the frisbee of course) we talked about everything and anything, she was telling me about her parents and her childhood. I noticed she enjoyed the bad boy qualities so I used my evil side to increase the intensity of the sarge. She loved to be dominated and how I described my childhood (gang related) experiences.

I brought her home, left her alone for a bit to get accustomed to the house and showed her my props from the places I’ve been to. Then I put on the music and we danced … something which quickly transformed in a make-out session. I got 4 LMRs: “we shouldn’t do this”, “I have to go”, “I really have to go”… I expected them of course, it was too easy until now, so I played 2 steps forward one step back and ended up fucking her. After the session I told her the 100% perfect girl story which I found out it alleviates the slut mentality (“it just happened”, “it was meant to”, etc).

Key points:

• go for it but always have a way out (never say “let’s go to my place”, say “let’s play frisbee” and get the frisbee from your place)
• roleplaying helped: “imagine we’ve just came from a party, we’re a little drunk and I just closed the door … now show me an american make out” <– if she accepts the frame you can have a heavy make out session and undress her then and there

Double date that comes with a challenge

Yesteday I had a date with a girl I sarged 2 days ago. At the phone she wanted to bring a friend, which was ok with me as I had a second option now … but she also wanted me to bring a friend. Her girl was gorgeous (she said) so I brought my ex-stripper friend with me.

2 girls approached, and I didn’t recognize which was the one I sarged (that night I closed 5 girls so I really forgot her face :P). So I took the hand of the one I liked and started walking towards my destination. While we were chatting the girl asked me why I didn’t talk to the one I number closed. Ewops!!! I was with the wrong girl … but she looked better ;-).

We spent 5 hours walking in the park, going for drinks, drinking wine near my place and we hit it off. She told me how she made her ex (her first) wait 9 months before sex and 2 weeks before a kiss … and how she didn’t have sex with another guy she met after her ex… and I said to myself: FINALLY!!! A CHALLENGE!!! (I spoke like 3 days ago with my pivot that I need a real challenge and we should hit some private groups and challenge ourselves).

From the first 15 minutes to the last hour I tried to kiss her 6 times which she refused constantly … but she was an investor so I knew I had to frame it that I want her, that she’s the desired one (instead of teasing and DHVing myself … like I’d do with a tester). When we arrived near her place I pushed her towards the wall and kissed her. She responded sexually and I stopped, telling her that I enjoyed the night and we’ll meet again.

Than I left 😉

I’m curious how long it’ll take until I lay her (unfortunately she’s away for the weekend so I’ll have to start from the Tuesday on).

A new sticking point rises

Woow! These couple of months were amazing. I had 3somes, same day lays, same night lays and all the shit I couldn’t have imagined 3 years ago. This tuned me to another level. I am very confident in bed, I know how to dominate, how to use parading and flash game to get the most beautiful girl’s number (even if she’s way taller than me) and to close the deal … but!

In the last week 4 things went wrong. I couldn’t kiss close on my day 2 on 2 girls and I lost to LMR on a SNL and a DAY 2 lay. WTF?

I’m now analyzing this for my sake and for any other reader that could use this info.

Here’s what happened:

Set 1: A date with a girl I number closed at a party. She was cute, by Pandora’s box system she is a realist and an investor. The date went great even though I had difficulty trying to avoid all her logical and emotionless stories. I stole her from the bar and we went to a restaurant at high altitude where I showed her the town. I tried to kiss her (even though I knew it wasn’t the moment … but I wanted LJBF prevention) and failed. I tried after a while and failed again. I brought her to my place where we dance and bonded (on a romantic / emotional level) but she wouldn’t kiss me. I also don’t think she’s a virgin … but she was elusive to my indirect inquiries. One more thing: I tried kissing her several times even though I knew she will refuse, I could’ve acted cold, as if she had a problem.

Set 2: A date with another girl from the same party. I number closed her 2 years ago (she’s gorgeous) but I couldn’t get the date then. Now I did and the result was the same as Set 1. Even though she was an idealist, tester, justifier … she was a virgin (with a great body – she was a dancer) and I couldn’t get the kiss. She was very responsive to my touch but I couldn’t get to that emotional high that would allow a kiss. Same thing as in Set 1, I tried kissing her several time without success. I didn’t act cold as the interaction went great (I preferred to be nonreactive).

Set 3: After a clubbing night I went home with a girl I sarged 3 months ago (but I had better opportunities then so I didn’t want her, she seemed shy). I was very smooth and got her all wet but I couldn’t undress her. I played hot-cold and she said that if she stayed she would let it go and she didn’t want to. I wasn’t really interested in her and I let her leave (it didn’t feel like I was losing something)

Set 4: I went to a club with a lot of girls (1 man – 8 females). I had my fuckbuddy there, my other fuckbuddy, 2 girls I kissed and didn’t close and 2 other dates that I intentionally LJBFed. One of those dates brought a girl with her. She was tall (one head above me) and gorgeous (she was modeling). I used preselection and flash game to get the HB. I ran a smooth game while getting my 2 fuckbuddies jealous. After number closing the girl I went home with my primary FB to get that jealous sex going.

2 days after I met with the tall model. Got a great date and kissed her (she was playfully denying me … which was bad, frame wise). I brought her home were we made out passionately and I couldn’t get pass the LMR. I masturbated via clothes but even though she was breathing heavily she stopped me. I tried for 1 hour but it didn’t go nowhere so I switched to debugging. She told me she needed security and trust … so I told her a story about an ex, then she told me she needs a romantic guy (but I knew better so I reframed it: she wanted a bad boy she can save that has a very deep side). I built a lot of comfort (hand in hand, talking about dreams) while the sexual tension dropped. One thing she told me: I was too insistent, it would have worked if she would’ve had a say. From my point of view: I didn’t do the 2 step forward one step back thingie, because I saw she was into it and I was too sure on myself (got her in my bed on first date, didn’t I?).

CORRECTION

Let’s analyze the 4 sets for a moment. One thing to note is that I still have attraction with all the girls and I can meet any of them if I want to (except Set 3 … I don’t have her number … nor do I want it). The girls like me and want another date with me … what went wrong?

1) Overconfidence

A few years ago I wouldn’t have dreamed of day 2 lays. Having a lot of them in the last couple of months changed me perception. I’m now EXPECTING them to happen. This has its good points and one BAD point. If it doesn’t happen, I try to force it! I use tricks to get her to my place as I know where I can get from there. The problem is that they backfire, she realizes during LMR that she didn’t want to get there. What I should do is play smooth game: get my A2, A3, C before going for the close … specially if I have time.

2) Not running smooth game

As I said before, overconfidence makes me skip game phases. I know that the 7 hours rule is old school … but it still exists (in some cases). I should be more empathic to the girl’s needs and do the A2/C phase a little stronger (read her better, find her needs and wants and then … sweep her off her feet).

3) Being reactive

I’m expecting to win, so if I’m having bad LMR or I can’t kiss I’ll try harder. I have the techniques to get a little further … but by being non-reactive I’ll probably skip 2 steps of the process. I should be less insistent once I’m denied the close.

CONCLUSION

Even though I usually get my way, these 4 sets made me realize some important things, the most important being that I’ll have to concentrate more on listening to what the girl needs.

STEPS TO CORRECT

1) Listen to what the girl needs / wants.

2) On a denied KISS / LMR be non-reactive, try again and if that fails break the mood and do something boring.

3) Get more A2 in to be more desirable.

Same day 3some

When I finished work I passed by 2 girls (one of them was shouting at the phone) but I wasn’t in the mood for sarging. After my date, I passed by them again so … I opened them (my spontaneous deja vous opener). I got quickly into bantering and, after selling my location: best view, 10 minutes from where we were, I told them: “we’re going at my place, to drink french wine”. They agreed (!@!?@?) and off we went. I had a lot of fun, even though I must admin, I’ve hidden my wallet when I arrived, and everything work great.

At 04:30 in the morning I closed my audio recorder and to sleep I went. What a life!

There isn’t much to say about what happened (as they were willing to play) but I’ve got some key points after listening again to the interaction:

DOs:

• Entertain both girls or one of them will want to leave.
• Mention somewhere that you did this thing before (or demonstrate it by acting confident).
• PLAY! Use masks, hats, make this moment memorable!

DONTs:

• Get out of left brain subjects ASAP, you don’t want to lose the energy of the situation
• In a same day lay situation, don’t get deep into comfort stories, you want them to feel safe but you don’t want them to label you as “just a guy”. Make it special, make it mysterious.
• Increase the sexuality of the interaction else the interest goes away.

I’m going for my 2nd 3some

Today HornyGirl, the last girl I fucked in front of a club called me inviting me to a club (near her apartment). She told me she was going with her girls (2 of which I kiss closed, one of which I was already intimate with <check my Prince Charming Gone Bad post). I said yes and at 21:00 she calls telling me the girls ain’t commin’. I test for logistics and invite her and one of her friends (the girl I didn’t fully close) to a private party, key words in the invite: wine, hats, pictures and masks. She hesitate (preferred she came alone) but I insisted and she said yes.

If she comes with her girl I’m going for a 3some (using the old dual induction technique) and if not it’ll be rough sex and a bottle of wine 😉

FR: 3some photo shoot (squirting included)

As I said, this year I’ve got to the next level. I wanted 3 3somes by the end and I’ve already had 1 in the first 3 months. Here’s the story:

SEDUCTION

I want snowboarding with ~50 people in a bus. During the trip a girl caught my attention. I busted balls a lot and used my l33t C&F techniques to bring the bantering to the next level. I laughed my ass off there ;-). Then I qualified her and started a deep cold reading (she was sexual and I guessed the age at which she lost her virginity … I’m getting good at this ;-)). Instant attraction! I also got a big bonus as she already heard of me from one of her friends.

We stopped at a gas station and we had a moment (sexual tensions), I could’ve kissed her there but I delayed.

LOGISTICS

On the road to our alpine villa I told her: “We’re staying together, right?”. She agreed. Then I tested her: “wait, before … I’ll have to test you”. I kissed her and qualified: “You’re definitely staying with me!”.

When we get to the room I have a big surprise: a big bed …. Las Vegas style!

We prepare for the party and get together with the others. At the beginning of the party she kisses me (I left her alone until then to get some doubts in her mind) and then she’s talking with the DJ. We both run jealousy plotlines (oh man she’s good) … and I figure … this is going nowhere … so instead of making her jealous I talk with the DJ, qualifying him and telling him about a 3some.

CLOSE

We take a break and go to my room where she’s giving me an excellent blow job (BEST DEEPTHROAT EVER!!! A TRUE 9.5!!!). Then we go back.

I talk about a 3some with a guy who’s an expert in photography (for some private shoots) and after a while, I go with the DJ to my room. We talk there but it seems she didn’t get the idea so the DJ leaves. After a while she enters and I start fingering her, but then, someone knocks on the door. She answers only to find the camera guy there. I wave and tell him to enter while she’s trying to act all shy and innocent. I’m fingering her under the bed sheets while we innocently talk with the cameraman ;-). He starts taking pictures and I remove the sheets.

From here on I can give you only keywords: oral sex, fucking, fingering, SQUIRTING!!! until morning 😉 We both cummed 3 times.

She loved the sex and she said she wouldn’t fuck for a week. I anchored the experience with a gesture and we went to sleep naked. Great fuck, great experience!

Some interesting facts about her: she’s open minded, open sexually, yet she lost her virginity 2 years ago. Also, she has a boyfriend for the last 2 weeks and they didn’t fuck.

PS: Remember those roommates (2 of which I closed?) … well … I closed the last one 😉

Today’s post: drugged girls, taking dares and prince charming gone bad!

A lot of things happened since my last post. Let the story start:

Friday I went at a karaoke bar with some girls I knew. I didn’t want to pick them up as they were friends … just to chill and socialize. I had a lot of fun singing with the girls and everybody applauded after I improvised a dance with HBcute. We danced so hot, body movement and all that everybody had their eyes on us (flash game yet again).

I had a lot of comfort with the girls and had a lot of fun and then it happened:

1. my best (girl) friend left (leaving me with 7 girls)
2. most of the girls left
3. I remained with HBerotic_masseuze

She was taller than me, she fucked playboy photographers and she was on coke. Never had one of those ;-). I didn’t want anything with her but after she bought us drinks (and got me drunk) she asked what do I have to drink (at home). I told her french wine and we got to my place. She was unfuckable as she was on the verge of vomiting on my place (why the fuck did I get her here! <– because I was drunk too!!!). We slept naked and I woke up the next morning doing my usual exercise, eating and working. She didn’t wake up …

…

until 16 p.m. when I finally got rid of her.

Saturday I got together with some friends and played poker while drinking good wine. 3 girls called me at 01 asking me at what club I was (this same day I noticed 3 OTHER girls having pictures with me on their profile … wtf?). My HBerotic_masseuze SMSed me at 2 o’clock telling me she was watching porn and wanted to go clubbing 😉 omigod! omigod! I hope she’s not a stoker!

Sunday I went lasertag with some friends and bit little kids to death! (at points) After that I receive 2 other texts from HBerotic_masseuze asking where I was and what I was doing (she’s a stoker => don’t respond).

What else happened in my life? Here’s the rundown:

I got a dare to fuck a girl on these songs (a song about kids and the national hymn):

Mission completed 2 nights after! I got audio and I dared the guy back to fuck on looney tunes. I guess I can wait a lifetime for that to happen. Now we’re thinking of having a club mix with my audio 😉

I arrived at a stage where I now realize I don’t need any more materials. I need to get my sticking points done and read specifics. I need to develop that part of me that’s not quite natural (C&F mainly + inuendos). My new roadmap version will help with that.

Flake recovery technique with short day game: I understand that the reason girls don’t meet with me is that after 3 days they forget those 3-5 minutes in which I number closed them. I should get their chat id on the phone and in case they don’t meet (or flake) to send them a (DHV) movie I made asking for their opinion about it. That way they’ll remember me, they’ll know something about myself and I can recover easily from that.

Another good flake recovery technique: after 5 days you sms her by mistake (my previously posted DHV sms in which you invite another girl at a party to meet a nigga’ from another country). You wait 2 hours in case she answers and then you call her, tell her it’s by mistake, “by the way” + comfort story + SOI “I like that we can talk about so many intimate things at the phone.” + get chat id (in case you don’t have it) or set a date (social date).

Here’s a 3rd successful flake recovery technique (this recovered an HB9 I’ve met a year ago). I delete numbers after 3rd try but I dare myself to get some HB9+ back after a while. It also recovered a girl with which I talked for 5 minutes and then flaked (she had a bf at that time). So here goes: after 2 tries to get a date you SMS her “I’m glad I’ve met you but I’m not the insistent type. I loved your feminine presence for those full … 5 … minutes ;-). Au’revoir cheri!“. Basically you SOI her and then you renounce her. This demonstrates non-needyness. Then you use my other 2 techniques to get her again (When I phone her, I usually say that I don’t like girls that flaked and she should’ve apologized. She usually excuses herself so I SOI her for having the guts to do that and I get the convo going).

A good sms I texted to girls I didn’t call for some time (got good response rate): “Right now I’m dancin’ in the rain and I thought to share my joy 😉 (big fkin’ smile).” It contains emotions and an edge element.

And here’s another FR: Prince Charming gone bad:

Last Friday I fucked in front of the club … and I k-closed 2 of the girl’s roommates. Now I’ve met one of them and here’s the exclusive story:

We planned for hot chocolate but before we met I phoned her that I was at the marked and was buying wine. She asked me if we were going for the chocolate but I rushed her and closed the phone. I meet her in the front of the marked and she asks me where are we going. I tell her it’s at chez’Angelsin. She asks why the wine. I tell her that we’re celebrating: Angelsin beat all of his friends at lasertag! I also frame this as my usual date: never the hot chocolate at a bar, always fun and interesting.

She tries to enter comfort with me (because I had too much A2 and probably because I fucked one of her roommates). I entered the prince charming frame: the prince, the princess, deep questions, leave the moment (nlp). She wants even more comfort! She also told me she’s on her period (hehe, good one girls!). I qualified her in the perfect moments, made her massage me … licked her breasts etc etc.

I was told 5 times that she wanted to be just friends (while I kissed her) 😉 I love the “yes we should” strategy ;-). Because of too much A2 she didn’t want to be swept of her feet so I hugged her deeply. GOT IT! MAXIMUM IMPACT! The only problem: she was falling in love! I didn’t want to pursue this so I wanted to experiment something new. So when we left I had stopped the rapport, completely: I’m not the guy that receives a no. She came to me trying to get an emotional reaction. I told her I’m deleting her number and she will have to decide, I’m doing something I’ve never done in my life: I’ll let her decide, she knows what she wants, what she can get … but it’s her choice. (Of corse I didn’t delete her number, only put a DUNNO_ in front of it). I threw her on a door at a closed store and kissed her there before we left (the prince and the princess). It was a life story.

Living the life

This post includes everything: partying like there’s no tomorrow, kissing each of the 3 girls that lived together while their roommates watched and … fucking in front of the club … FOR THE THIRD TIME!

Let’s start with the beginning:

Earlier this week…

… (Sunday) I went on a date with a girl I sarged, she wasn’t my type so I played social game.

… (Monday) I fucked a girl on our first date (and recorded the interaction from the beginning till her orgasms). Good fuck!

… (Wednesday) I invited some friends for chit chat (including a classmate from college). I only kissed her for 2 seconds while the others kissed, no other move. She stayed over and we fucked. Second good fuck! I also ignored calls from my lay from Monday.

… (Friday / today) …

Today …

… I ignored messages from my Monday lay (because I wanted to go clubbing without the girl I just laid)

… I got a table at a frequented bar in my area, inviting a lot of friends. Two of them already had a table there. The Social Girl from Sunday came with 2 girls and a guy. I befriended them and we chit-chated while my other guests arrived.

SURPRISE!

My lay from Sunday, Horny Girl was invited by Social Girl! She came with 2 girls (both fucking cute). She was very surprised and a bit mad as I didn’t give any sign for 4 days. The girls started dancing and I told Horny Girl I gave her an email about what we talked Monday (a lie that created the idea that I tried contacting her). I dirty danced with everyone and the mood was great. Then I went PUA mood:

I had another table where an ex lay held her birthday; I introduced my wing and other guys in that set and DHVed them. My wing also opened a nearby 3 set where he encountered HB Flexible (his flake from 6 months ago). Another friend of mine told my wing that he laid HB Flexible.

I returned to my table, dirty danced with everyone and number closed HB Cute (HB Horny’s roommate number one). She was good looking and I did a bit of comfort, asked her hard qualifying questions (to which she responded well as I was DHVed by all the people at the table). She number closed me!

I dirty danced with HB Horny again, with other girls, I talked with a dancer (another ex lay) and she DHVed me again. Then I kissed roommate number 2, HB Deep and continued dancing (jealousy plotline in action).

Returning to my other table I number closed HB Flexible after I danced with her (and man she was horny). I held a strong frame and told her we won’t meet Saturday, we’ll meet Sunday, before dark ;-). She number closed me.

While dancing with another girl I noticed HB Horny’s buying temperature rising and I told one of the guys that I’ll lay HB Horny in front of the club. I went to her, took her from the guy, danced a bit and asked if she’s spontaneous and once she qualified I took her hand and took her outside. In 20 seconds we were in a relatively isolated place (one guy asked what were we doing but he left). We had a quick fuck there and we returned to the club, directly to the bathroom … couldn’t help but brag to my wing, showing him her mudded blouse.

Then, I went into deep comfort with HB Deep: she told me I knew things about people and I told her I could tell a lot about her. I tried a kiss close but she didn’t comply (even though I could touch her … so I understood I needed to build rapport). I cold read every inch of her body (we shared a commonality: one of my exes (which one?) was born in a town near her). I told her about the year she lost her virginity, about how she feels when she goes to clubs, how many guys she had, why she dresses as she dresses and how she suppresses many needs in her life due to the image she has in her friends’ eyes. We talked about Jung’s shadow and how she can have fun … not now … but when she feels that need … that strong need inside her like when NOW, she feels that … NEEDs when she knows she met someone (insert strong NLP self-invented pattern here). We built a strong connection and she number closed me. While we talked HB Cute interrupted us trying to steal her friend but she wouldn’t go; she was deep in the interaction. Meanwhile, I played with HB Horny’s hand trying to play for a 3 way kiss close but HB Horny left while we were talking so I kiss closed HB Deep. I also pre-framed HB Cute as being jealous in case of more interruptions.

After I number closed the roommates HB Cute sit down and talked for 30 minutes with HB Deep (about me of corse). I ignored them and number closed a girl from college that was the party type (and at our nearby table, seeing me flirting with all those girls). My fuckbuddy from my Virgin Mary LR came and we danced together and my wing told me to create comfort with another HB he brought there. I danced with her, she danced well so I cold read she did dances (she was a hip hop dancer). I tried some commonalities but couldn’t hit the spot … so I hard qualified her. She didn’t know how to qualify so I used my she-number-closes-me routine on her and she took my number. I didn’t DHV as I didn’t know her status with my wing (who was sarging other girls at that moment).

Total: 5 number closes, 3 kiss closes and 1 lay. I didn’t open ONE SET!

Key points:

• my abs: putting girls’ hands on my abs make them extremely horny
• ask girls if they are spontaneous and if they qualify, isolate them
• make them number close you: hard qualification (what makes you special with all the beautiful girls here) + be impressed (if you are) + SOI and number close her: “ok, I like the way you think, write my number!”. Ff she doesn’t qualify well: “I see … ok, then I don’t promise anything but conversation” or “you’re not my type, I really prefer X girls” (check if she qualifies for X)
• having a table and inviting a lot of people (we were over 20 people at the table or near) works in your favor
• you can kiss close girls in front of other girls you kiss closed the same night, also you can number close and let them figure out what you want from them 😉
• deep interactions can go over club superficiality (I framed myself in the girl’s eyes that we all party here and who we truly are we’ll find in person) => I could kiss close girls without her feeling bad or betrayed
• knowing one of the dancers, the waitress and the owner worked great
• club energy matters: it was high but you could speak well

FR: One of the reasons I love PU

Because I can go to a new town, pick a girl without knowing the local language and steal her, while my wing flirted with her friend, to the last floor of a nearby building.

I love my life!

LR: Virgin Mary

I’m writing this as it’s an interesting lay report and things can be learned from it. I’ll censure most parts of the story as somebody reading this could know her.

Number close:

I got her number in a club at Halloween because I liked the way she was dressed (sexy geisha).

First date + kiss close:

At our first date we kiss closed and we had a lot of things to talk about (she’s in the top 30 smartest Romanian achievers list). I also learned she was a virgin so she was a no-no in my mind (oh, almost forgot: a bisexual virgin). She wasn’t exclusive (g’yeah!).

Second date:

We went clubbing and she was a good (aka sexy) dancer with a high desire to have fun in every way possible (we dared each other to do adventurous things in the club).

Third date:

I arrived home from a trip on Sunday and I was exhausted. Before I went to bed I called some girls so I can set a date after I wake up, in the night. We’ve met for a drink in the park, ran from dogs, spilled drinks while running, et cetera et cetera. We also talked about seduction, getting girls in bed and life theories (I was preparing her as a pivot). We arrived at my home to play a table game (yeah right). After a lot of talking (and telling secrets) we massaged each other and then started making out.

F-Close:

She told me she was sexually assaulted when she was little and was now traumatized about sexual intercourse. I continued making out with her using common LMR techniques and calming her and got LMR due to trauma flashbacks. Here’s the technique I developed to pass this: I told her to hug me and kiss me as nothing exists each time it hurt or she had a flashback. She did so and we fucked. After she felt very good about the experience, she passed one of her greatest fear (that kept her from sex for a long time).

The questions:

Q: “When did you realize you wanted to have sex with me?”

R: “When we went at your place … but I was very scared. Talking about my problems helped a lot.”

Q: “When were you first attracted to me?”

R: “A little in the club due to the way I behaved and the games I knew and a lot at our second date when we discussed high level subjects.”

Final thoughts:

I don’t want to have sex with virgins. There’s too much involvement. Why I had this exception, you may wonder. Well, it’s because she’s a very kind and smart person and I perceive her as a very good friend (with benefits). I wouldn’t like anyone else to do it for her. If the boy would’ve been less experienced she would have been traumatized the second time.

Key points:

• having vast experience with women, a pickup artist should know how to help them in case of need (but he shouldn’t be responsible for them), note the technique in the F-Close section
• talking about traumas helps a lot, it makes the woman feel safe around you (you understand her)
• she didn’t want to come to me when we talked at the phone, but she did in the middle of the date; create adventure then lead to the desired destination
• when you bring a woman over, she knows you two might have sex