FR: another good game but I must use better seeding

FR 30.10.2008

Set 91 – HB6: Set opened on the street. The girl was way too quiet and a good girl for my taste. I loved the way she was dressed but I couldn’t find anything interesting at her so I didn’t take her number.

Good stuff: Good logistics (I synched with her as we were going in the same direction).

Bad stuff: I couldn’t EV or use proper A3 material.

Where I lost the set: We went in different directions

Things to do differently: Better A3.

 

Day 3 with PU ID 46: We established a meeting in the club so I went there first. I’ve met some friends and PU ID 19 there so when my girl came with her friends I was walking another girl in the club (preselection point hit!). After that we got together, I (really) played hard to get and escalated until I was with my leg between her legs. I couldn’t escalate further (couldn’t bounce due to her friends and her roommate was watching us) and, as I had to go to work the next day, I left.

Good stuff: Good eye contact, body language and SEXUAL ESCALATION.

Bad stuff: I was hesitant in a few occasions and I didn’t start escalation when I met her.

Things to do differently: A bounce would’ve been possible if I could’ve staid longer.

 

Set 92 – HB7 (PU ID 51): I opened her when I was returning from the club. It was one of my best sets, she was amazed at my personality and the things I told her. I even changed location to a bench for a palm read which I never did (and will be used as part of a reason for a Day 2).

Good stuff: Good game (A1-C2).

Bad stuff: Didn’t have enough A3 material.

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: Use more A3 and give SOIs based on that. Also have a short comfort story. Also I forgot to seed.

 

FR: Scheduling next month

FR 29.10.2008

My challenge for this month was to take 2 phone numbers / day for a whole month. I have 21 numbers left to complete the challenge (took around 40 numbers) so next month I’ll concentrate on fixing my sticking points in my day 2s (where I’m relaxed) and then in my sarges.

Set 87 – 2 set: I opened them at the bank, in line, waiting for a debit card. A2 was ok, in A3 I couldn’t get commonalities and I lost the set.

Good stuff: I can open anywhere.

Bad stuff: Bad A3.

Where I lost the set: I couldn’t find commonalities in A3.

Things to do differently: Play a game, demonstrate uniqueness.

 

Set 88 HB5: Went direct but I noticed she was scared (I body rocked but she was thinking something intense probably. I switched to indirect so I wouldn’t scare her (asked for an opinion on a present).

Good stuff: Calibration.

Bad stuff: Scared her.

Where I lost the set: I wasn’t interested after I took a second look.

Things to do differently: –

 

Set 89 – HB6 (PU ID 50): She was siting on a bench. I went direct, got to sit down (using my FTC) and continued gaming. She was a static person and didn’t open at first. I was getting bored as I couldn’t get rapport and commonalities. We finally got something when she was talking about her father and from there everything was ok.

Good stuff: I didn’t eject when she wasn’t interesting and found out a whole new level of her.

Bad stuff: –

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: I need to get better at A3.

 

Set 90 – 2 set: Opened perfectly and went into A2. Even though they were having fun I didn’t break into their world (still the funny guy there). I couldn’t do A3 but they told me the club they’ll go to next week. So they like me but I screwed it somewhere.

Good stuff: Good A2.

Bad stuff: No C&F, no teasing, just A2 stories.

Where I lost the set: They went in another direction and I didn’t want to pursue.

Things to do differently: C&F, teasing and then A3.

 

 

 

TIP: DHV SMS

Another original trick I invented: I have some HBs from another town. We sometimes talk on the phone and we always hang together when I’m going there but, since I’m not in their lives, the attraction fades. I need some spikes in my phone relationship. So I send them this:

Talk to Carla for the invitation to the masked ball. Yesterday I couldn’t (partied with some friends from Amst). Come with the New York guy as Diana likes him.

They know it was sent by mistake and they usually call me to ask why did I send them (chick dictionary: tell me more). I apologize for the mistake, talk a lot about the 2 parties and … don’t invite them 🙂

This may also work for girls in my town I didn’t keep contact with or in lots of other cases. If you know that girl X loves a band, send a SMS by mistake in which you write to girl Y that you plan on going there.

FR: Not enough time for sarging

FR 28.10.2008

 

Today I sarged 2 girls the second time. They were some (kind of) failures from way back and they remembered me. I kept my cool but didn’t progress.

Set 86 – HB6 (PUD ID 49): I love the way she was dressed so I opened her even though she appeared a hard set (went the other direction in a hurry). 

Good stuff: Very good body rocking, opened logistically hard set.

Bad stuff: No comfort.

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: I need a small comfort routine for day game.

Day 2 with PU ID 46: Went perfect. Got my kiss close.

Good stuff: Good eye contact and body language. Successfully tried the girlfriend test and the evolution phase shift routine.

Bad stuff: I got the kiss the third time. Should have played with her neck more and get it the first.

Things to do differently: I need a plan for Day 2s so we have more things to do, not just a drink. I should concentrate more on quality meetings instead on quantity meetings.

Phone game with PU ID 43: Got her for a meeting tomorrow (too bad I have another meeting AND an appointment at a doctor … all that … AFTER I finish work). I’m hoping for a flake here.

Good stuff: Great conversation. Went from extreme sports directly to book reading.

Bad stuff: –

Things to do differently: –

 

FR: LJBFed again

FR 27.10.2008

Set 85 – HB8 (PUD ID 48): She went past me in a hurry but she was extremely cute so I opened. My opener worked flawlessly and we were in A2 in no time. Everything went well and I got the number.

Good stuff: Opened girl that walked in the opposite direction in a hurry with her ipod on. It seems these kind of sets are (sometimes) openable.

Bad stuff: No comfort (girl was in a hurry).

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: I need a small comfort routine for day game.

 

Day 2 with PU ID 47: We talked a lot and I really mean a lot. There’s a connection here … and we played some games … and I got a lot of IOIs … I was even touching her on her legs but then she snapped out and wanted space. Repeated this with the same result. Tried to kiss her but she didn’t want to, changed subject with alphaness. In the end she told me we should be friends because it’s too much and we have so many things in common … and there are some things (her words). I don’t know how this will turn out.

Good stuff: A really good interaction. Good kino progression. If I wouldn’t had kissed her she would’ve LJBFed me from the start.

Bad stuff: Nothing really.

Things to do differently: I DON’T KNOW! I have some ideas but no arguments against/versus them in this situation. I need to steer the love feeling in this girl. I’ll probably use preselection (meet with other women).

 

 

 

FR: Good tips, day 2 kiss close and sex talk

FR 22.10.2008

Set 83 – HB6 (PUD ID 46) + 3 girls: I give a HB6 here because she is small but she is very cute. I know her from dance classes. I used the trust test (palm squeeze) to check if she was ready to receive my number. We left together (me and her friends) and I got her number (but didn’t do any comfort). I won’t call her until after the next dancing session.

Good stuff: I finally implemented the trust test.

Bad stuff: No comfort (due to the group being there).

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: Play a game (which will make me different from the other guys).

 

Phone game with PU ID 43: I was at dance classes when I phoned her (which affected my game a bit). She flaked and she said maybe we aren’t right for each other. I think she’s the lonely type and I should decelerate and go into comfort.

Good stuff: –

Bad stuff: Didn’t build enough comfort before inviting her. I must practice calling girls just to build comfort.

Things to do differently: I must do more C1.

 

Found out PU ID 25 has a boyfriend, she told me on the phone but I used a BF destroyer and got the idea in her head that we should meet. I’ll call her later (when she dumped him or she is bored, to check things out. A lot of girls have boyfriends and still give me their number and when I phone them … they realize they did the wrong thing and we don’t meet.

 

Set 84 – HB8 (PUD ID 47) – 2 set: We had lots of things in common right from the start. She knew the pinky swear, we were hi5ing our way to comfort until my bus arrived. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend (but I still got her number).

Good stuff: Hugging 🙂 and real connection. Only if I could relate to any set like that. Hooked the set so good that even her friend was happy that we had those similarities.

Bad stuff: –

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: –

 

TIP: How to meet a busy/flakey girl

Phone her and tell her you are at some friends near the place she lives, you’ll be leaving in an hour and you’d like to have a drink with her. If she refuses you don’t loose points (as you were just in the neighborhood). If she accepts you have an hour to arrive there. She’s also more likely to accept as she doesn’t have to go too far, she knows the place (which makes her feel secure) and you won’t look needy (you don’t go after her, you were just near by).

 

Day 2 with PU ID 32:  I used the tip above to Day 2 this girl. She came with a friend and we started talking. They were really chatty and we soon arrived to sex talk. The girls were sexually open, they had loads of experiences and I had a fun time. I kiss closed.

Good stuff: Hugging and my hand hold kino test that showed she was ready for a kiss. I talked with her friend in the beginning and negged her a bit. This had a huge impact in her attraction towards me.

Bad stuff: Nothing really but I need more teasing material.

Things to do differently: –

FR: Major improvement in day game, bad night game

FR 21.10.2008

Set 80 – HB9 (PU ID 48): Opened her directly in front of my work place. My best day set ever: full 20 minutes game (A1->C1). I hooked from start until the end.

Good stuff: Excellent game.

Bad stuff: I wasn’t being playful, ball busting, teasing … I was the nice guy (the extremely interesting one of course). I think this will turn to be a sticking point. I time briged to a date she flaked on (I should’ve been more direct).

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: A hug would’ve been nice.

NIGHT GAME: Bars ROCK. The openers work, it’s way too easy to open in a bar. The club is way too energy for indirect (they don’t hear you).

Set 81 – HB9 + mixed set: I opened her with an opinion opener. Perfect A1, A2 hooked but I was across the table (bad positioning for kino). Her friends tried to get her to dance but she listened to my story. A3 didn’t work well and I didn’t do C1 (I needed a game before A3 to be the really interesting guy, not just the storyteller).

Good stuff: I’ve got A1 and A2 down. I’ll concentrate on A3 now. Storytelling went great.

Bad stuff: I wasn’t being playful, ball busting, teasing … I was the nice guy. Didn’t progress in A3.

Where I lost the set: Not maintaining interest in A2.

Things to do differently: Should’ve opened from another part, play a game and have her come to me for the solution.

 

Set 82 – HB8 + girl + 4 guys: I thought she was making me signs but she was making them to a couple in front of me. I hooked with the girlfriend test, told a story but she said she had to talk to her friends also (she didn’t eject me here).

Good stuff: A1, A2. Making acquaintance with her friends.

Bad stuff: Bad position, running the target instead of running the group. Should’ve brought some girls there.

Where I lost the set: I concentrated on my target instead of running the group.

Things to do differently: After opening my target I should’ve told the story to the whole group.

 

FR: I need to get rid of some neediness

FR 20.10.2008

Set 78 – HB8 + HB6: Opened them on the road to the university. I got the girl’s phone number (PU ID 45) even though I didn’t do A3 or C1 (I need to learn A3).

Good stuff: A number close as usual. I also used a situational (funny) opener.

Bad stuff: No A3, no open threads when we departed. I should’ve hinted at my palm reading routine.

Where I lost the set: –

Things to do differently: I’m not using my general A3 questions, which is plain stupid! I should’ve qualified her.

 

Set 79 – HB6: Opened her at dance classes. I looked way too interested (I danced with her twice). After hours I opened her friends with a question and went with them to the dorms. I looked extremely needy when after she didn’t give me her number I followed her 10 more steps to her dorm without any reason whatsoever (I’m not used to not getting numbers).

Good stuff: Good opener, made her laugh.

Bad stuff: No A3, no open threads when we departed. I should’ve hinted at my palm reading routine.

Where I lost the set: I looked needy by following them. Should’ve ejected when I arrived to my dorm.

Things to do differently: Should’ve stayed low for the day and thrown a DHV spike another day, and another. Then, qualify her and get number. Don’t call the next day and ignore her at dance classes.

 

Phone game with PU ID 45: I repeated myself telling I was scared of meeting her (some sick role playing scenario I never developed). I also couldn’t EV and I didn’t use any structure.

New way to post field reports

This was taken from whim’s blog. Instead of posting my good points, bad points and sticking points I will concentrate on the following:

• good points
• bad points (that added up will make my sticking points)
• where I lost the set
• things to do differently

I think this is an efficient way of viewing FRs.

FR: Bad boy gone bad

FR 19.10.2008

 

Set 76 – HB7 + HB4: A 2 I opened when they were taking pictures. She didn’t give me her number as she had a boyfriend. Everything else went good.

 

Set 77 – HB8 + HB4: Another 2 set. I opened perfectly and everything went great in A2. Everything was great and I played a bit of bad boy until I run out of things to say. She was 18 and she didn’t relate to my stories, there was something missing. A3 didn’t work and when I tried to get her number she didn’t want to. She said I exaggerated (which I did).

 

Good points:

• perfect opener
• good A2 material
• good transitioning
• storytelling works better now

 

Bad points:

• I exaggerated my bad boy approach
• I need to work on A3 a lot

 

Sticking points: NONE in these sets.